Hello, Twin Flames Universe, we are Alexandra and Laurentiu. We have decided to share our story on the blog through a series of articles.
Whether you are new to the concept of Twin Flames or you have been seeking your Twin Flame for a long time, you have probably wondered, “How do I prepare for my Twin Flame Union?” This is an important question to ask because those of us who desire Twin Flame Unions need to know exactly how to prepare for one in order to attract it.
At Twin Flame Ascension School, Jeff and Shaleia teach a spiritual technique called the Mirror Exercise. This is the foundation of all preparation for your Twin Flame Union because the Mirror Exercise is the process of self-love. It helps you find all the blocks and barriers you have put up against self-love. This helps you not only attract your Twin Flame Union, but also maintain it.
However, there are also other tips that you can use to prepare for Twin Flame Union! Jeff channeled Divine Mother in order to share Her specific guidance.
Channeled Message from Divine Mother
“Your Twin Flame Union is a complete unification of your soul’s parts. When you allow yourself to become one again with your soul, you bring in pure light to all the darkest places inside you. Allowing this to happen can be extremely uncomfortable if you have not prepared yourself for the transition.
“This transition can be extremely comfortable and delicious if you have prepared yourself for the experience. Preparing yourself for a Twin Flame Union is easy and fun. When you first decide you desire to attract your Twin Flame into your physical reality, I recommend you start with a few simple steps.
“Step 1: Think clean thoughts. This is the quickest way to prepare yourself for your Twin Flame Union, and it’s fun and easy when you allow yourself to choose the most wonderful thoughts you can think. Imagine you’re sitting in a park and you see a beautiful park all about you. But there are pieces of trash on the grass in front of you. I would recommend ignoring the trash and focusing only on the beauty of the park. You could also go and pick up the trash and put it into the bin, but not to think negatively about the trash and hoping someone else will take care of it. You must take responsibility for your thoughts in order to be able to work through them lovingly.
“Step 2: Focus on your desire. Write down everything you desire about your Twin Flame. Look carefully at your desire every day as frequently as it feels good. Remember that your Twin Flame is part of you and you can attract them to you.
“Step 3: Be willing to love who arises in your reality. If you are attracting your Twin Flame, and someone who is not your Twin Flame arises and excites and delights you, I recommend loving this person with your whole being and enjoying what comes from this experience. Along your way, you will experience perhaps many partners who are not your Twin Flame, which prepare you for your Twin Flame. Shaleia was guided to partner with a man who she strongly believed was her Twin Flame but, after two months of an upsetting relationship, discovered he was not. The very next person she was to partner with after this preparation relationship period would be her true Twin Flame Jeff.
“Step 4: Be willing to let go of all those who are no longer resonating with your desire. When you choose to invite your Twin Flame into your reality, it is important to let go of anyone in your reality who does not align with your new desire. For example, if you were choosing your Twin Flame but find yourself in a relationship which is not bringing you into deeper alignment with your true self, I recommend that you allow yourself to spend less time with them gently. There is no hurry about this. You can take as much loving time as you like along your process. Remember that your Twin Flame is manifesting at exactly the right time for you, and that right time for you is absolutely your decision. You decide how quickly you want to progress along the steps I have invited you to take. There is no rush. Your Twin Flame can manifest at any time, ready to be with you just as you are ready to be with them.”
Allow this channeled wisdom to sink into your consciousness. Divine Mother will continue guiding you from within.
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Getting into Twin Flame Union should be fun and easy. Let go of anything you’ve heard and read that tells you otherwise. Pain and suffering are not divine! You were made in your Creator’s image to enjoy all the gifts of life. When you do your spiritual work diligently, the Ascension path becomes smooth, easy and fun.
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Transcribed by Samhita Chitturi from the video “HOW DO I PREPARE FOR MY TWIN FLAME UNION?” by Jeff and Shaleia.
As I was going through one of the many classes from Twin Flame Ascension School, I listened to my teachers, Jeff and Shaleia, explain how God had created His Children and how everything that exists has been created for them. After hearing this, I immediately thought of the Bible’s book of Genesis and how God created Man at the end so that he would be supported when coming into being.
Just as we would prepare a baby’s room before he is born, God created the heavens, the earth, rivers, animals, and plants so that Adam and Eve could be fully supported in their existence.
This is how much God loves us and how life’s perfection works.
Claiming Our Good
In this knowing, we can see that there is always an abundance of love for us. Sometimes we may think that life does not feel good and use this to reject the idea of Love and God. I hear you. I did that too before coming into this work.
But thanks to the Mirror Exercise, I was able to learn and understand, bit by bit, that life’s challenges—those moments that we don’t feel so good about—are only the contrast we experience when we are not choosing to love ourselves. All of the hurt, sadness, anger, or disappointment we feel is there because we didn’t know how to choose love in those moments. Luckily, we can heal these parts of us by using the Mirror Exercise. By looking at those feelings and choosing to heal, we can bring the love we rejected back into our hearts.
After all, this is what God is always waiting for us to do: to find, see, and choose love, to choose Him again, to rebuild that relationship with Him and with life, and, in so doing, become open to receiving all the love that has always been there for us.
What You Seek is Seeking You
“God’s voice is the gentle whisper beckoning from within and always calling you back Home, back to Love.” – channeled by Debo
There is a voice that is always guiding our steps. I know this because this is the voice I have been following since I can remember, even if there are times when I am feeling doubtful about this path. Still, one thing is undeniable: ever since I committed myself to this spiritual journey, I have had to face challenges many times because my external reality wasn’t looking a particular way—my way. And because of this I was a) feeling unsupported, believing I couldn’t move forward in my healing and b) allowing myself to fall into this trap, not realizing God is supporting me (and everyone) always.
The problem isn’t whether God supports us or not, because He does. Problems arise because His support often times won’t look the way we were expecting it to. Yet, when we let go of our ideas of how things should be, when we let go of our attachments, we can surrender to God’s way for us—for the truth is God takes care of us like a loving father would. We may think all we desire is to eat candy all day, but in reality that is neither in our highest interest, nor is it what we need to grow and be happy.
When things don’t seem to be going how you expect it should—surrender. Rest in the knowing that you are indeed being provided with everything you need, especially when you are consciously and actively choosing to heal your Union with God.
Keep this in mind as you move forward and you will succeed in your endeavors because God has already created everything your heart desires; for it was He who put those desires there in the first place. Everything you dream of, and more, is waiting for you to claim it and see that everything God has ever made are the things you want most for yourself too!
It bears repeating, God created everything you need to be supported in being who you desire to be. The only reason anything exists is to serve as the means through which you experience your relationship with Him. There is absolutely nothing that should be stopping you from getting what you desire simply because it is already yours.
I would like to close by sharing a message that God gave me not so long ago.
“Your love can never leave you.
It comes from far back in time,
from the moment I created you.
You then chose to walk alone,
apart from me, apart from all.
Until you chose not to do so anymore.
This right now is one of your gifts,
to have direct line and communication with me.
You are bright as a star, a diamond in disguise.
If only you knew how much I (have always) love(d) you…
You would see how special you are in my eyes
and you would doubt no more
how much you are worth.
Do you choose to see now
how special and unique you are?
How all else has (already) been forgotten?
Only you punish yourself
for deviating from my hands.
Let me wash it all away for you,
so you can finally lay rest
right here, (in) to my warm embrace.
I forgive you my Child,
For there´s never blame.
You were only experiencing life
without knowing how far you’d get.
You know your way back now.
You just need to take the steps.
And I will be here always
watching you come closer (to me).
Lay rest, it is ok.
Everything has already been forgotten.
for there never was, and never is,
*Channeled by using a card from Alana Fairchild’s Journey of Love Oracle cards.
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About the Author
Debo Bassow is committed to the teachings at Twin Flames Universe, as she has found in them the key to her peace, joy and freedom. She enjoys reading about numerous topics such as art and culture, astrophysics, psychology, and learning languages (Spanish, English and German, so far). As a mother, she wishes to see this work expand to parents and their children, as well as spreading these teachings to the Spanish speaking public.
Her website is www.beingyourhigherself.org. It is in both English and Spanish, and offers coaching services, biodescodification reports, and oracle card readings.