Has at least one Twin Flame read Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover, and is a student of Twin Flame Ascension School One or All Class Pass?
Yes
Are you in a committed relationship, meaning both parties have mutually agreed to be exclusively committed to each other and to their Union?
Yes
Have you compared your Love Lists? Please describe how your Love Lists align, and explain about the Core Values that you share as a couple. Please provide specific examples of the Core Values you share as a couple.
Our Love Lists align in Core Values and vision. We both desire a relaxed, neurodivergent-friendly lifestyle filled with travel, nature, and exploration. We're deeply called to help others return to Love by working together as Ascension Coaches. Our Core Values include honesty, sensitivity, health-consciousness, joy, humor, and a commitment to spiritual growth and healing. We value authentic communication, empathy, and a balanced lifestyle—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—through healthy eating, movement, and daily wellness. Laughter, a positive mindset, and shared inner work, including studying Jeff and Shaleia’s Teachings, are central to our connection and shared purpose.
Approximately how much of each other's Love List do you match?
90% and growing into the rest.
How long have you known each other?
Since 2020
Do you both feel that you are Twin Flames? Please describe why you feel this way.
Yes, we both feel this way. From the very beginning, Bastian has felt that I am “guiding him into the light” and helping him let go of fear, and he has even received signs from the Universe about this. From the start, I have felt very much at home with him, as if he were deeply familiar to me, and there has always been a strong sense of trust between us. I also feel that we share one consciousness, and within this connection I experience God’s Love in a depth I have never felt with anyone else before. We always make the same core choices, and we mirror each other's healing.
Can you describe the spiritual healing journey both Twin Flames took to arrive at the conclusion that you were Twin Flames?
I revealed him to myself by writing my Love List and healing every upset that arose during the process. In the end, I found a 100% match in him. To get there, I had to become very clear about my core values and life vision, and I had to explore and deepen my connection with my true self. For Bastian, our weekly coaching sessions helped him gradually release his resistance to the Teachings of Union and the term “Twin Flame.” This allowed him to recognize me more and more as his true Twin Flame.
Have either of you healed through a false Twin Flame experience? If so, please describe how you came to the conclusion that they were a false Twin Flame, and how you have resolved the relationship and come to peace and clarity.
Before meeting Bastian and discovering the Teachings of Union, I had three false Twin Flame experiences. They weren’t actual relationships but dating or getting-to-know phases. Two of them lasted about a year, and the last one was only about two weeks. At the core of all these experiences was a repeating pattern: I could feel that these people hadn’t made the same core choices as I had, and they weren’t willing to grow and evolve alongside me. It always felt like they were standing still while I continued growing on a spiritual level. In the end, I realized there was no deep connection—no true Love. Bastian also had false Twin Flame experiences. In his case, he recognized they weren’t his true Twin Flames when these people eventually chose a different path in life than he did, and their journeys naturally moved apart while he continued his inner growth. In both of our cases, these experiences ended when the other person ended the dating phase or, in one case, Bastian chose to end the relationship himself. At the time, neither of us knew about the Teachings of Union or about Twin Flames Universe, but we both received support from therapists. They helped us to process the feelings of rejection and the pain of the end of these relationships and to heal them.
Have you explored your Life Purpose together? Please share about your Life Purpose journey.
From the very beginning of our relationship, we both felt a strong fascination with helping others on a spiritual and emotional level. We had each done a lot of therapy and read many books on personal development. Initially, Bastian had the dream of becoming a licensed alternative practitioner for psychotherapy, while I realized—after dropping out of university—that I wanted to work from home and online as a spiritual coach. Bastian eventually let go of his plan to pursue that training. I consciously chose to train as a kindergarten teacher to create a foundation from which I could build a self-employed career. Through my Ascension Coach Lara Zimmer, I then realized that Ascension Coaching was truly what I wanted to do. After completing the Ascension Coach Training Program, I began working full-time in my business, which felt incredibly empowering, liberating, and healing. A few months after I started the training, Bastian realized that he, too, wanted to help people together with me as an Ascension Coach—utilizing the Mirror Exercise and the Teachings of Union. At the time of writing this, he is currently planning to begin the Ascension Coach Training Program this upcoming winter.
