Being around your Twin Flame can be such a beautiful experience on so many levels, but have you ever been stuck for words mid-conversation with the love of your life? Or have you been in a beautiful flow of flirty conversation, and then suddenly the conversation dies? Here are some tips to keep the discussion going with anyone in your life, but especially your Twin Flame.
1. Feel your feelings
So often when we are at a loss for words, we have disconnected from ourselves or our heart. An easy way back in is to feel into your heart for a moment and allow yourself to feel whatever is naturally there. Inevitably there will be blocks and upsets to work through. The Mirror Exercise is an excellent tool for this, and the more you use it, the easier it is to feel and heal in the moment.
2. Get curious
Another way back into a conversation that has died is to ask questions. You may have been dominating the connection and not even realizing it. What does your Twin Flame think or feel here? What is their experience like at this moment? Show that you are genuinely curious about them, and they will open up like a flower. Just remember to listen and be present with what they say.
3. Be authentic
When you are honest with your thoughts and feelings and speak from the heart, it puts people at ease. Don’t the most authentic people feel the most trustworthy and appealing? Also, you and your Twin are one at the core, so when you are genuine, it is incredibly attractive to your Twin. Don’t let fear hold your tongue or keep you talking about nothing. Remember you are enough. Conversation flows so easily from that natural place of peace within you.
4. Take risks and play
You can think of a conversation like a game of catch. You toss the ball to the other person, and they toss the ball back to you. If you hog the ball or let the ball drop, the game dies. Give and take in a natural way. As you feel comfortable, you can even send the ball over in an unexpected way– that’s how most Unions started. You’ll find a rhythm and style that feels good to you, but you can test out the connection with a little risk and play.
5. Be ok with silence/ let go
No one likes a feeling of desperation in a conversation. If it feels like the chat has naturally taken its course, let it go. Just because you aren’t talking doesn’t mean there isn’t an internal and eternal conversation going on. If it feels uncomfortable, ask yourself how you are feeling. Are you listening to your own heart? Are you connecting with your own internal Source? Or are you trying to get something from outside of yourself? Is there a purpose to what you’re communicating, or are you talking out of fear of silence? Breathe, and remember you are enough.
Whether chatting with a co-worker or professing your love to your Twin Flame, being present with your own feelings and speaking from your own genuineness and peace is guaranteed to keep the conversation alive. You may be in separation or Union. You may not have a clue who your Twin is. Know that you are never separate from your source of Love, there are lots of resources to help you if you choose, and once again, you are enough.
Find the Mirror Exercise, healing tools, and all our free relationship resources at the end of our Twin Flame test.
Written by C.F.
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