Do New Year’s resolutions work? You may have heard all about intention-setting and resolutions, but are you stuck on how to start or how to follow through? Let’s explore some ways to set your resolutions this year and see how several Twin Flame couples manifested their dream homes and beyond.
Using A Love List For New Year’s Resolutions
One way to envision different aspects of the life you would like to manifest is to make a Love List. Love Lists are simply a list of all your desires and values about a certain thing that you would like to see more of in your life. For instance, if you were making a Love List about a new job, you might list how you would like to feel in the new job, the salary you would like to receive, how many hours you’d like to work, what kind of impact it might make, what kind of coworkers you have, how it would work with your family life, etc.
If you were to make a Love List for your romantic partner, you would list all the things you value in life that you would want them to value, too, such as nature, good food, culture, family, spiritual life, a shared purpose, pets, etc.
When making a Love List, try not to get too hung up on the surface details. You may list that you desire a partner with blue eyes and brown hair, but try to find the deeper value you are after…maybe you’re looking for someone who values their health and takes care of their body. A desire for a vegetarian may actually just be for someone who values animals, for instance.
You can create a Love List for anything you desire in your life. Once you’ve written it, you can return to it throughout the year to refine it and check in: are the things you are attracting into your life meeting or exceeding the things on your Love List? It becomes a North Star for what you would like to bring into your reality or what you’d like to set boundaries around.
Get Clear then Let Go
Once you’ve gotten clear on what you’d like to bring into your life in the New Year, the next step seems counter-intuitive: letting go. If you stress and strain to “make it happen,” you are most likely working out of an energy of fear, the exact opposite of what attracts things to you. Stay in your peace, and trust as you put one foot in front of the other in working towards your goals. This process is like “ordering up,” so to speak, at the diner of the Universe. Your desires and dreams are coming to you as fast as is compassionate. Clear any blocks or resistance to receiving, and let go of how and when they will come into your life. You will be amazed at the results.
Twin Flame Couples Manifest Their New Homes
José and Michaila were diligently working to manifest their new living space. They gained clarity by identifying and honoring their core values. They realized that the United States aligned perfectly with the lifestyle they envisioned for themselves. José and Michaila shared that, “Mostly it was getting clear on where we’re headed, what is our lifestyle, what do we desire out of life, and what place is most in alignment for us? It feels beautiful, like a dream come true.” They have since moved into their new home in the U.S., and are expanding in their coaching business.
This insight is powerful: being in the right place supports your growth and well-being, much like planting a flower in the perfect spot to bloom. This alignment allowed José and Michaila to expand, create new goals, and achieve the growth they were seeking. Their journey shows that when you gain clarity on what truly resonates with your heart, you naturally create space for your desires to come true.
Persist Through Fear Into The New Year
Fear often holds people back from manifesting their goals, especially when it comes to big decisions like moving to a new home. But Paco and Deborah didn’t let fear dictate their path. They took time to feel their feelings and only made decisions when they felt peaceful, allowing them to move forward without resistance.
Paco and Deborah said, “Moving to a new home is always both an emotional and spiritual process, and it’s ok to take your space to get clear on what kind of home you’d like. What living situation would feel the most supportive for you right now? Be honest about it, as getting clear on what you are looking for is a very important step. From there, the process gets easier.”
When you feel supported in your current space, everything becomes easier. By embracing the journey and being present where you are, unexpected delights can unfold, just like the joy of Christmas morning. The relief of smashing your New Year’s resolutions and meeting all your goals can feel a lot like that!
Adam and Breann also emphasize the importance of clarity and embracing opportunities for healing. They said, “Get very clear on what you want to create for yourself, claim it in your heart, and embrace the opportunities that come your way…they are helping you build your dream. Most of these opportunities will come disguised as challenges, inviting you to heal your relationship with your current situation.”
For Adam and Breann, the power of manifesting became clear when they committed to healing through every challenge. Their experience shows that the more you love yourself through the process, the more empowered you feel to create the life you desire.
The Life You Desire Is Within Reach
It can seem like hocus pocus to set resolutions and see them come true, but our community is full of stories just like this. The desires of your heart are put there for a reason, and it’s not to torture you! With some clear intention-setting and clearing of any blocks to your dreams coming true, the life you desire is already yours.
Feel those tugs in your heart? They’re leading you to your good. Keep following, reach out for support if you need, and don’t give up. You and they are worth it.
Looking for your next steps? Start with the free Twin Flame Toolkit, and begin your new life today.
Written by C.F.
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