Paco & Déborah

Paco & Déborah

Paco and Déborah met online in the TFU community in 2019. After Déborah started to follow her heart in becoming an Ascension Coach and laying the foundation for the TFU Spanish community, she also began hosting one of the Twin Flame Ascension School Discussion Groups. At the same time, Paco was joining the school and began participating in Déborah’s discussion group, yet they weren’t able to recognize each other as true Twin Flames then.

As they both embraced the Teachings of Union and chose to heal with the Mirror Exercise and Mind Alignment Process (MAP), Paco also became an Ascension Coach and discovered he is a Divine Masculine. This made it possible for them to reveal each other as true Twin Flames in March 2021. After revealing each other, they immediately knew they wanted to live together. Upon making this choice, Déborah was able to leave Argentina and move in with Paco in June 2021. Since then, Paco and Déborah continue to heal in their relationship with the Teachings of Union as well as support others on their Twin Flame journeys. They are both dedicated students of the Teachings of Union, as well as volunteers in the Church of Union, where they continue to work together in bringing these teachings to the English, German, Spanish, and LGBTQ+ communities.

Has at least one Twin Flame read Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover, and is a student of Twin Flame Ascension School One or All Class Pass?


Are you in a committed relationship, meaning both parties have mutually agreed to be exclusively committed to each other and to their Union?


Have you compared your Love Lists? Please describe how your Love Lists align, and explain about the Core Values that you share as a couple. Please provide specific examples of the Core Values you share as a couple.

Yes, we've read and compared our Love List back in 2021. As we did this, we came to the conclusion we were both expressing the same desires in our perfect partner, as well as realising our core values are the same.

Our core values are:
- Honesty: We both feel having the space to express our thoughts, feelings and opinions in an open and honest way is an important component of our relationship, as we both apreciate being able to express ourselves fully and completely in an authentic way.
- Trust: We both feel is important that we can feel confident trusting each other and that we both have each other's highest interest in mind when sharing our thoughts and feelings. This is something we are still currently working on, and the more we heal, the more we see we can relax in each other's presence and trust that the other person is loving us unconditionaly.
- Unconditional Love: we practice being patient and compassionate about each other’s processes, undertanding that there is always an underlaying reason for one of us -or both- to be experiencing something in particular. As we express ourselves about these feelings and experiences, we do our best not to judge them, allowing ourselves to be more supportive of each other.
- Freedom: we allow each other to explore our options, feelings and experiences in an open way, as long as they are in alignment with God/Love/Peace, and we invite patience and compassion, as the other person gets clear on what their experience is and what healing is being required in that space.
- Creativity: we practice having the space to explore our options and be creative in navigating through our challenges and life experiences.
- Union: we actively choose to be in Union and work through our upsets together, whether we do it together at the same time or each in our own space, we always strive to improve in being able to work as a team.
- Respect: we do our best to respect each other's thoughts, experiences and/or opinions, even when we may not be agreeing with them at the time.
- Humor and Intelligence: we strive to live a God centered life, which brings light and joy to our lives from a peaceful place, as this allows us to approach challenges in a much lighter way, being able to see what God's lessons for us are in any given situation.

Staying true to our core values and aligning with them as best as we can in each moment has proven to help us move faster through our blocks and upsets in the relationship.

Approximately how much of each other's Love List do you match?

90% and growing into the rest

How long have you known each other?

Since 2019

Do you both feel that you are Twin Flames? Please describe why you feel this way.

Yes, we both feel this way, because upon applying the Teachings of Union, healing with the Mirror Exercise, the support of our Ascension Coaches, and our Gurus, we always find ourselves growing closer to each other and making the same core choices to continue healing and growing together as a couple. We also see it in how we are mirroring each other perfectly, both in our choices of love as well as our core blocks and upsets.

Can you describe the spiritual healing journey both Twin Flames took to arrive at the conclusion that you were Twin Flames?

We both applied the Teachings of Union through watching classes from Twin Flame Ascension School and Life Purpose, along with the lessons of the e-courses (RA and DCT) and workshops. We both chose to heal any upsets using the Mirror Exercise and have support from an Ascension Coach. We each did this on our own, and in our process of healing, we both were invited to explore if we were Twin Flames a few times. We still had some blocks to receiving each other as Twin Flames, so we continued to apply the Teachings and heal. As we kept going with this process, we naturally came to our next step around march 2021, when we both felt guided to share our Love Lists with each other and get clear if we were Twin Flames. We still had some blocks around being TFs, but we kept doing the inner healing work and supported ourselves with the help of our ACs, which led to us finally receiving the truth that we are True Twin Flames at the core.

Have either of you healed through a false Twin Flame experience? If so, please describe how you came to the conclusion that they were a false Twin Flame, and how you have resolved the relationship and come to peace and clarity.

Yes, we both had this experience, and we both came to a natural, clear and peaceful resolution in this regard. We both came to the conclusion these people were false TFs because neither of them were aligning with our core values and desires regarding our perfect partner. We also both experienced seeing these people grow further away from us as we continued healing, while -at the same time- we were growing closer to each other.

Have you explored your Life Purpose together? Please share about your Life Purpose journey.

Yes, we've been exploring our shared Life Purpose, and this is something we are currently going deeper with. Our Life Purpose is an essential component to our Union, as it is the glue that holds our Union together. As Deborah chose to express her Life Purpose, Paco showed up in her life. Deb followed the call of becoming an Ascension Coach and Leader in the TFU/COU community, by laying the foundation for the Spanish TFU Open Forum to come to life, and stepping into her role as host in one of the former Discussion Groups for TFAS class. She hosted not more than 2 Discussion Groups before Paco joined. This has been like a red line in our Union. When Paco chose to embrace his purspose as an AC, this supported our revealing process of being TTF. Upon coming together in the physical, this

Now, as we are currently working through getting more clear about what our Life Purpose together as a couple is, we still know we would not be able to sustain our Union and the love we share for each other without living our Life Purpose. With every upset we heal in this regard, we as Twin Flames come closer and our love for each other grows stronger. One of our biggest desires in our Union is to follow the call in our heart and support other people in having what we have: God and unconditinal love with our perfect partner.

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