The holidays can be a tough time, especially when you are alone for Christmas. On the Twin Flame journey, it can be particularly uncomfortable when you are not with your beloved Twin Flame. You might feel like all the cheer is for other people, or you may be wading through family trauma. You might also be enjoying the solitude but feel strange for going against the norm. Whatever your situation is this holiday season, fear not. The love and joy of the season are still for you. Here’s a breakdown on how to call in your most beautiful Christmas yet.
Your Twin Is A Mirror
Your Twin Flame mirrors your insides perfectly. They are also only attracted to your deepest most authentic self. So if they are not with you for the holidays or otherwise, they are pointing to where you are not with your true self this holiday season? Are you ignoring your real feelings, numbing yourself in some way, or pretending to be something you are not?
Gently admitting where you might be abandoning yourself and then healing that part of your consciousness will radically shift what happens between you and your Twin Flame. They can only give you what you give yourself, so if you give yourself love and compassion in those hurt places in your heart, they will be giving you love and compassion as well!
It’s also helpful to understand that the Twin Flame dynamic will amplify any traumas or childhood family dynamics that might surface during the holidays. Be super kind to yourself and ask for support in working through the feelings that come up. Healing in these arenas will help your future Christmas experiences enormously and bring your Twin Flame closer to you.
Being Alone For Christmas Lets You Romance Yourself
Being alone for Christmas may seem like a painful predicament, but with a little perspective shift, it can be the most loving and romantic experience. A common block on the Twin Flame journey is to think that your Twin Flame is your source of love and fulfillment. In truth, they are only a channel for your real source: God, the Universe, or Love itself. Take a deep dive into your own Divine source, and your Twin Flame will mirror this love.
How do you do that? One way is to romance yourself. Make a list of things you love to do, and do one or more of them every day. Are there holiday traditions you love? Explore making them your own. Is your heart feeling lonely? Feel into that part of you and give them all the love they are asking for. Are there gifts you would love to receive? Work through any resistance to receiving them. You are worthy of your most perfect romance and most perfect holiday experience. The secret is to give it to yourself.
One Twin Flame’s Christmas Experience
My first Christmas with my Twin Flame was beautiful. We saw no family. We cooked, made art, and watched Christmas movies all day. I was shocked at how peaceful I felt and how easy and sweet it was with my Twin Flame. It was a milestone reward for all the inner work I had done around all the many Christmases I had been alone and struggling with family issues, poverty, and generally feeling lost and unloved. Working with a coach, going through MAP, and healing through childhood wounds not only transformed my holiday experiences for good, they brought my wonderful Twin Flame into my life. I had to learn that I am never alone in my heart as God and my Union are within me. Then my outer reality reflected this as well. This can be your experience, too.
Being alone at Christmas may not be your ideal, but don’t despair. Deeply, you are never alone, and everything that you feel through and heal this Christmas will make the next one that much better. It’ll fast track your Twin Flame into your life, too. What a gift!
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Written By C.F.
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