Your Soul Purpose: The Key to the Love That Finally Lasts

Finding your soul’s purpose is a process. One day you feel like you’re going through the motions in life confused and afraid of failure. Some searching later, you find yourself lit from within doing the thing you love, even if it’s unconventional and without guarantees. How do you get from A to B? Every journey is different, but here are a few things to help along the way.

Love often starts with a spark. But how does it lasts? The world says chemistry, marriage, or kids will hold love together (and end up disappointed when the love fizzles out).

But true love that continues to grow and lasts is built on purpose. Your purpose is the bond that keeps love alive and makes passion grow instead of fade. Your one true love will always align perfectly to it.

What Is A Soul Purpose?

Each soul has a reason that they’re here on this Earth. They have some mission that makes their life have meaning. This purpose is often the thing that they love to do the most that also helps others in some way.

Take Coco Chanel, for instance. She loved to make clothes, and she became one of the leading fashion designers in the world, helping women express their innate beauty for years. Her soul purpose was to express beauty and femininity, and she did so through fashion.

A picture of Coco Chanel with Winston Churchill

3 Tips to Find Your Soul Purpose

There are many ways to uncover your mission in this life. One fun way is to reflect on your joys as a child. Were there any things you were particularly drawn to as a kid? Any movies or books that you returned to again and again? What were the themes of those books and movies, and how do they apply to your life now? You might spend some time writing about these memories as they are fertile clues into your soul’s purpose.
Another way to discern your soul’s north star is to list all the things that you value and desire in life. (This is also a great Love List to help with discerning who your Twin Flame is. More on that later.) Steer away from surface ideas on this if you can. A fascination with cats may point to a deeper value of respecting animals, for example. Or eating well may have more to do with valuing health than with body image. These values point to how you are designed as a soul and help paint the picture of your unique passion.
Last tip for finding out soul purpose is to spend time with your soul. Prayer and meditation are excellent tools for deepening into this process. You can literally ask– dear Divine Soul, what is my purpose in this life? And listen to your heart for the answers. If it feels expansive and grounded in good feeling to you, then you are on the right track. Go towards that, and more will always be revealed.

Found My Purpose, Now What?

Once you have clarity on your soul’s purpose, the next steps involve investing and expanding into that purpose. Maybe that means returning to school for a time, or calling in extra support. Perhaps it just means carving out some time to focus on that purpose, even if it’s just a few minutes a day. When you are clear and committed, the next right steps unfold naturally.

Give yourself compassion if fears and subconscious blocks come up after getting some clarity on your purpose, though. Working through these as they come makes every block a building block for the life you are creating, and fears are only ever false evidence appearing real. Using the Mirror Exercise and claiming some extra support can be a huge help during this part of the process.

Side Effects To Finding Your Soul’s Mission

Finding your life purpose can be a huge relief and energy boost. You feel your most alive and authentic self, and though there may be lots of work involved, the work feels natural and fun.

Plus, finding your soul purpose will accelerate you finding true love.

That’s also a delightful bonus to this state of clarity– it’s highly attractive to your Twin Flame. In fact, you and your Twin Flame have the exact same soul purpose. It may not look exactly the same on the outside, but the inner mission is united in love. So if you are struggling in the Twin Flame journey, focusing your attention on your soul purpose is a great way to open doors and build foundation in your union.

However you do it, committing to the soul purpose journey is hugely rewarding. You are here for a beautiful reason, and the entire universe will conspire to help you in that purpose if you are open to it.