Many seem to wonder about the difference between a soulmate relationship and a Twin Flame Union. If you are already in a romantic relationship, or if you feel you’ve already met your Twin Flame, knowing the difference will help you clear which experience you prefer. Knowing this will bring you peace and clarity, and therefore, make your journey much easier.

The term ‘soulmate’ has been featured in many movies and books. Within us, there is a deep desire to find the person that is our perfect complement, our perfect partner in life. In that context, ‘soulmate’  became the mainstream and most widely known expression to describe meeting the love of your life. However, Twin Flames and soulmate relationships are quite different. 

So, what is the real definition of a soulmate? Is a Twin Flame relationship a romantic one? And why would there be different types of romantic relationships? How can you differentiate between the energies of Twin Flame and soulmate? 

There are a lot of misconceptions around Twin Flames and soulmates on the Internet. In this article, we’ll debunk all of the “so-called” truths and falsehoods. By the end, you’ll know exactly what a Twin Flame is, what a soulmate is, and , most importantly, which of these relationships is the one you truly desire. 

What you need to differentiate 

  • Soulmate, karmics and Twin Flame: The Definitions
  • How many Twin Flames and Soulmates can I have?
  • Are Twin Flames meant to be together?
  • Can Soulmates be Twin Flames?
  • What is the role of a karmic partner?
  • Do you end up with your Twin Flame or a soulmate?
  • Which one should I choose: Twin Flame or Soulmate?
  • Is Twin Flame the most powerful?
  • Can you break a Twin Flame soul tie?
  • Twin Flame or soulmate? – quiz
  • Divine Romance through the lens of Twin Flame Art
  • Capture your Twin Flame love forever
  • Should you marry your Twin Flame or your soulmate?

Soulmate and Twin Flame: The Definitions

Let’s start from the beginning. A soulmate is someone that you have spent many lifetimes with, often as a spouse. Because of your closeness, you are kindred spirits but not perfect partners. In their book Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover, Jeff and Shaleia refer to soulmates as “two people [that] relate to each other from the two different shores of their souls.” Soulmates may stay together for a time but they are not meant to be together romantically for eternity. This is the main core difference between the concepts of soulmates and Twin Flames.

A karmic relationship is someone with whom you are meant to have an experience in order to heal and learn a lesson. In truth, karmic partners are not really a “thing”. It is just a term coined to describe this experience. And, unlike many popular opinions out there, there is no obligation to stay with them in order to learn that lesson. Why? Because you can just as well learn and heal it with your Twin Flame, in the safe space of your Union. There are no contracts that bind you to be with a karmic for a certain amount of time. This is because there is no need for separation from your true and Ultimate Lover, your Twin Flame.

Twin Flames, on the other hand, share the same soul blueprint. They are comparable to the yin yang symbol: whole unto themselves, but complete and connected to each other in every way. You do not merge with your Twin Flame because you are already One at the core, as you were created together by the Divine. This means that your Twin Flame is your greatest teacher, your best friend, your perfect partner and your Ultimate Lover. Yes, you are absolutely meant to be romantic and have sex with your Twin Flame. They are your One True Love, your True Divine romantic partner for eternity.

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How many Twin Flames and Soulmates can I have?

A lot of people have several soulmates. And soulmates don’t always end up being romantic partners either. They can be a friend, a child, a parent or a neighbor. They are someone who you feel close to. We encounter many soulmates throughout our eternal existence. They may even share one or several lifetimes with you. As you do not make the same core choices, you will naturally evolve on different paths after some “time.”

But you only have one Twin Flame and they’re here to stay! You and your Twin Flame make the same core choices, so you will be with them for eternity. In truth, you are never separate from them. For example, you both made the core choice to incarnate on Earth at this time so you could be together. Only 3% of people don’t have their Twin Flame on Earth at this time, and it is only because their Twin Flame isn’t yet born. Going by that definition, everyone has a Twin Flame. Twin Flames are not a rare occurrence, they are the norm in the Universe.

 

Are Twin Flames meant to be together?

Many people seem to think that Twin Flames are only meant to be in your life for a time to help you awaken and purify your soul. But it couldn’t be farther from the truth. Soulmates are the ones that are in your life to teach you a lesson or to experience joyful situations or challenges with you for a “short” amount of time.

Twin Flames however, are your Divine Counterparts. You are meant to grow deeper in love eternally together. The reason why people think Twin Flames may not last forever is because they will bring up and amplify anything that is out of alignment in your vibration. Learning to harmonize with your Twin Flame can be challenging, but having the right tools to work through these challenges will naturally bring you closer to them and into your Harmonious Twin Flame Union.

 

Can Soulmates be Twin Flames?

Another widespread misconception is the notion that Twin Flames are a certain type of soulmates, rare and here on Earth for a specific purpose. However, soulmates do not share the same consciousness; Twin Flames do. Twin Flames and soulmates are, therefore, totally different and Twin Flames are actually very common. Your Twin Flame is a Divine mirror to your shared consciousness. They love you by bringing you closer to God. They are an Ascension path, one where you get to live one life with your Perfect Lover.

 

What is the role of a karmic partner?

Many believe that karmic partners, or karmic soulmates are a rite of passage, a lesson that they must get, or a contract that they must fulfill, before they end up being happy with that person, or so they can ultimately meet and be with their Twin Flame. This is entirely false. You have no obligation to stay with a karmic partner to have your Eternal Lover, or to balance out your karma. No one can take the power of choice from you. The Twin Flame path is not one of suffering and you can choose to end your relationship with pain and separation today.

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Do you end up with your Twin Flame or a soulmate?

You can choose to have a relationship with a soulmate but as previously said, Twin Flames are truly the endgame of dating, for all of eternity. By choosing to take the Twin Flame path, you choose to fall in love for the very last time and to cultivate a love that continues to grow forever.

Most of the marriage role-models we have are soulmate relationships. We are used to seeing the relationship begin with sizzling fireworks, only to fizzle out with time. With your Twin Flame, however, you can choose to have a love that never fades, lessens or dwindles. Living with your perfect partner will never be boring because they have the same core values and vision for life as you. And you will always be growing deeper in love together.

Twin Flame relationships are the only relationships where you don’t need to compromise to be happy or keep your marriage afloat. When you know how to be in Union with your Twin Flame, you create a safe container where you can express upsets and heal any misunderstanding or uncomfortable feeling that comes up. But, you do not need to wait to be perfectly healed to be with your Twin Flame, you can choose to be with them now.

 

Which one should I choose: Twin Flame or Soulmate?

Well, it all depends on what kind of relationship you are TRULY seeking.

Many end up settling for a soulmate or a karmic because they don’t believe they can be with their Twin Flame in this lifetime. Others settle because they believe the path is painful. And some settle, because they don’t believe themselves to be worthy of such a Divine love.

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If this is you, don’t worry. As you heal these beliefs, you will see that your Twin Flame was -and always is- perfect for you. This is why it is so important to heal any fear, rejection, 3rd party situation or miscommunications in your Union.

As you do this, you make way for the wonderful and profound love story that you will never experience with anyone else but your Twin Flame. The journey is worth it, and you can have an easier experience by sharing it with like-minded people who are going through the same challenges, yet still experience great love in Union with their Twin Flame.

If you were waiting for a sign to pursue your Twin Flame journey, this is it! Will you choose to fall in love for the very last time today?

 

Is Twin Flame the most powerful?

Yes, because you are created with a Twin Flame to grow and experience life together. You are both meant to help each other heal your blocks to love, that you may always experience deeper levels of that love and romance. You are meant to be with your Twin Flame and experience the richness life has to offer you. They are your path to your ascension, which is nothing other than your total and complete alignment with Love. They are your Home, and the safest relationship you could ever invest yourself into.

 

Can you break a Twin Flame soul tie?

No. As Twin Flames share the same soul blue-print their bond can never be broken. Not even when you are choosing to experience separation. The bond and connection between Twin Flames not only is unbreakable, it is eternal. Nothing can ever come between you and your Twin Flame.

Twin Flame or soulmate?

Let me guess, you have been on this journey for quite some time, and you wonder if this person is “The One”. How can you tell if you are currently in a relationship with your Twin Flame or a soulmate? We have an easy way for you to find out! Head over to our wonderful Twin Flame Test to learn the truth about this connection.

 

Divine Romance through the lens of Twin Flame Art

Twin Flame art is definitely a way to express the Divine love and connection you feel and share with your Twin Flame. And… Everyone loves to see Twin Flame art!

It shows the Divine Union that every single human in the Universe craves and desires. This is because Twin Flame love is universal. Every single person has a Divine counterpart, and everyone is looking to feel and experience that unconditional love (whether they are conscious of it or not). In celebration of that Love, we have compiled a series of art expressing all the facets of Twin Flames for you to feel inspired on your journey.

 

Capture your Twin Flame love forever

When it comes to Twin Flame love and finding a way to capture this deep pure connection you share, there is no better way than through tattoos. And when it comes to Twin Flame tattoo designs, there is a whole universe of possibilities to be explored: minimalist Twin Flame tattoo, spiritual tattoos, Twin Flame matching tattoos, tribal Twin Flame tattoos, infinity Twin Flame symbol, couple tattoos, husband wife or married couple tattoos, couple ring tattoos, funny couple tattoos, disney couple tattoos, couple initials, sun and moon tattoo, puzzle piece tattoos king and queen matching tattoos… Almost anything can become a symbol of the love you feel for your eternal partner. Here you can find tons of ideas to help you immortalize your love. Let us know which ones are your favorite!

Should you marry your Twin Flame or your soulmate? 

Again, this all depends on the kind of relationship you desire to experience. But we do need to address the following Divine Truth behind these two relationships. You are created with a Twin Flame to be your perfect partner in life and in romance. This means that anyone who isn’t your Twin Flame is, in reality, a Brother -or Sister- in God. Therefore, you are only ever truly married when it is with your Twin Flame. 

Our community has seen many Twin Flame couples coming into Union, Harmonious Union, and even being married! This can also be you, no matter where you are at in your journey. 

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Written by Yoreen Marcin, June 2022. Edited by Deborah Bassow, October 2023.

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