Your Union heals as each of you heal, and because you are One with your Twin Flame, you are on the same spiritual level. Your Twin Flame is you, so how could you be more awake than yourself?
You are responsible for yourself, and only yourself. The feelings that are coming up for you to heal are yours to move through. Your Twin Flame is responsible for themselves and only themselves. The feelings coming up for them are theirs to heal. Sometimes your experiences will be similar and sometimes very different. It doesn’t matter how things look on the outside. If you are choosing to heal, so are they.
Choosing to love and to heal means you’re moving toward the same result, Harmonious Twin Flame Union, even if you seem to be on completely different paths. This doesn’t mean they’ll never believe or accept this journey, they will arrive at the realization naturally and in the way that is perfect for them. Is that not how you arrived here?