When a person is aligned with their inner Divine self, the Love between them and their Twin Flame grows and is magnified very quickly.
Sometimes the Love seems intense, or too much to handle at once. But that’s just because Twin Flames are meant to live in perfect harmony, and anything that is out of alignment with that harmony (i.e. a bad relationship or a heavy-feeling job in either Twin Flame’s life), weighs the whole Union down and disrupts the natural flow of harmony.
These upsetting things must be made transparent in the Union, so that Love can decide what is in perfect vibrational harmony and what is not. That’s why you and your Twin Flame feel out of control sometimes. It’s not you who decides, it’s Love that decides. You either vibrate in harmony with that Love and go deeper together, or you don’t. When upsets take over, separation ensues.