Today we’re talking about a very popular subject that has affected a lot of people in the community:

“What if my Twin Flame is married?”

Twin Flame Union ≠ ordinary marriage

We should preface this article by saying we profoundly respect marriage. Jeff and Shaleia grew up around the institution of marriage, and they respect their marriage in Harmonious Union and the concept of Twin Flame Union.

Profoundly respecting Twin Flame Union means you recognize it as a much, much higher form of marriage. With your Twin Flame it’s true marriage, because you’ve been married in Spirit ever since you were created together. You are natural companions! In many respects, it’s unnatural not to be with your Twin Flame. So if you’re in a non-Twin Flame marriage and you feel uncomfortable because you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you’ve met your Twin Flame – well, it’s time to start thinking about what really matters.

What About the Kids?

We know that for many of you there are children involved; maybe you or your Twin Flame has children from a previous relationship.

We would like to simply say that if the parents are happy, the children will be happy. That’s the truth of it. A marriage doesn’t have to look a certain way on the outside. The outside does not matter to children. It’s how their parents feel on the inside that matters above all else.

Children would rather come from a broken home than be in a broken home. When you’re coming into Union with your Twin Flame and you’re merging two families together as one, we can guarantee it’s going to be wonderful. You and your Twin Flame are meant to be together. You’re happy, and you’re in love, so it’s naturally going to benefit the family. You can come into Union easily, even with kids involved, when you apply the Mirror Exercise as taught in Jeff and Shaleia’s book, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover and their eCourses.

Anything that you do for love, everyone wins.  
It’s always a win-win!

If you’re married, or your Twin Flame is married, and you desire to be together, you have to go for it. You can’t live an unlived life. You can’t walk on this planet knowing that your Twin Flame is walking on the planet too and you’re not together. It’s also selfish to not free up your Twin Flame’s spouse to seek their own Twin Flame Union, which would be most beneficial for them.

What if there’s a nasty divorce?

Jeff and Shaleia have personally worked with many Twin Flames who have been in marriages, or whose Twin Flames have been in marriages, and they have seen that the non-Twin Flame marriage falls apart effortlessly when it’s not with your Twin Flame and you’re choosing your Ultimate Lover.

It’s not a hard, horrible divorce. It’s actually an easy, simple process for everyone involved. It’s positive for everyone involved. The dissolution of marriage is no small thing but if you’re doing it for Spirit, for Higher Love, then it’s easy because it’s absolutely supported.

You don’t have to worry about whether your Twin Flame is married or not, because as you’re choosing your Ultimate Lover, you realize that’s your partner. So you don’t have to share them with anyone, and you don’t have to wait until they decide to finish their other relationship. You need to simply choose your Ultimate Lover.

Waiting for your Twin Flame is an illusion; you’re simply waiting for yourself. It’s never, ever about them. So dissolve that marriage! Don’t worry about that spouse! If your heart’s true calling is your Twin Flame, there is nothing that can stand between the two of you, nothing at all.

Only love is real, and love never fails.

Soooo…flirty texts?

If you are single or in the process of getting divorced, and your Twin Flame is still married, it would be out of integrity to avoid them, or to not “make moves.”

Like we said earlier, we respect and honor the agreement of marriage, but a Twin Flame Union trumps a non-Twin Flame marriage. That’s why we encourage you to pursue your Twin Flame no matter what the outside appearances look like.

Trust that it’s fully supported by Heaven, because you’ve been choosing your Twin Flame and your Ultimate Lover all the way along. Spirit is guiding you now, so a lot of the blocks and barriers to your Twin Flame Union are blocks and barriers that you are experiencing inside of yourself. If you want to start to align yourself to your Twin Flame Union even before your Twin Flame is divorced, you can check out Twin Flame Ascension School, where you can learn from the journeys of others who have successfully healed these exact blocks.

As soon as people start choosing to follow their hearts, the Way is made. Like we said, don’t worry about the children. When you bring children under a roof where there is a Twin Flame Union, you’re also teaching them about great love, and you’re teaching them about Twin Flames whether you explicitly say it or not. You’re now holding a new bar for the children in choosing their own life partner: their Twin Flames!

When you give yourself the gift of Harmonious Twin Flame Union, you’re giving the world the gift of Harmonious Twin Flame Union. You’re also extending that out to your family members and your friends, and sharing with them this great love that is theirs to claim as well.

You are not a Homewrecker

It can be difficult to grapple with the guilt and self-judgment that comes from decades of conditioning about what “marriage” really is. It helps to have the nurturing support of a community that intimately knows the sanctity of your Twin Flame Union.

Remember that your Union is always Divinely supported.

Further Reading and Resources to Claim Your Support

No matter what challenges you are facing, Love knows the way for your own Harmonious Union and the perfect place to start is to check out Jeff and Shaleia’s Free Twin Flame Ascension Introductory Course.

You have the power to heal your Union and we can show you how. Why not book in for a Coaching Session with a Twin Flames Universe Certified Ascension Coach where your Coach can help you get clear on your next steps.

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Adapted from the video “WHAT IF MY TWIN FLAME IS MARRIED TO ANOTHER?” by Jeff and Shaleia.