Some people, many, many people… Most people I encounter at this time absolutely refuse to acknowledge what their Twin Flame person is showing them about themselves. They absolutely refuse to acknowledge that they are not vibrating in harmony with their desires and that they will have to change in order to have the relationship they desire. Usually what I see are people trying to cling to their old ways. A lot of people will work really, really hard to try to convince their Twin Flame of the relationship they want, instead of putting that energy into the inner work. Control is not proper etiquette when it comes to Twin Flames.
So, we have a choice. We can either take the spiritual journey of transformation, or we can settle. We cannot force reality to change to our liking, we must change ourselves in order to experience a different reality. You’re not going to get your Twin Flame to change, you must change. Let’s imagine we do decide to change ourselves, to work on ourselves, to heal ourselves so that we can have Harmonious Twin Flame Union. So we equip ourselves right and get ourselves a Twin Flame Ascension Coach, we invest in the Everything Package and we get serious about the inner work.
Making the choice will change little immediately in your reality.
“You wanted a lover and you were going on dates and meeting people, but now you’ve abandoned that and instead you’re alone at home taking classes and getting coaching?”
Your friends might say. And you can tell them “Yes,” yes you are. You respect yourself. You honor your experience and the conclusions you came to through your experiences, so you’re not going to decide to do the insane thing and try to do the same thing as before and expect different results, nor are you willing to compromise. This is the attitude of success, this is the attitude of someone who loves themselves.