Your today is a result of all of your yesterdays and all the yesterdays of those who came before you. You cannot expect those who came before you to have done it perfectly. What you are experiencing as a result of those choices is now yours to choose what to do with. You can’t choose for them or for you back then, but you can choose for you now.
Look at your finances. The amount in your bank account, your debts, your assets, liabilities, income and expenses are not a result of something you are doing right now, they’re from your past choices. Your past choices take time to catch up with you, it’s a process. If you stopped producing value and dove into a horrific gambling addiction, your life might not look very much different today or tomorrow, or even next week. But given time down such a road, the consequences of your choices will begin to take root and show. Until one day everything you have been doing shows up.
Your debts get called in, the police show up to evict you, your car gets repossessed, your friends won’t answer your calls, your family won’t take you in, you’re completely bankrupt, your emotional, mental, and physical health spirals. Eventually the results show up from the choice you’ve made, and they always will. It’s absolutely undeniable and unavoidable. It’s for this very reason we guarantee Harmonious Twin Flame Union.
When you make a poor choice, so long as you ignore the sick feeling in the pit of your stomach, you might immediately feel immensely rewarded from it. “Wow look, I don’t have to go to work anymore! Everyone is treating me like a high-roller. I feel so rich, look at these huge profits I’m making in my casino wins! Everyone wants to be around me, I’m so cool and awesome and likable! I’m having a great time with my life! I don’t need to go to work, I don’t need to wake up early, I don’t need to listen to my boss anymore. I am my own boss. I am powerful, I am lucky, I am free, I am living my dream!”
Your debts get called in, the police show up to evict you, your car gets repossessed, your friends won’t answer your calls, your family won’t take you in, you’re completely bankrupt, your emotional, mental, and physical health spirals. Eventually the results show up from the choice you’ve made, and they always will. It’s absolutely undeniable and unavoidable. It’s for this very reason we guarantee Harmonious Twin Flame Union.
When you make a poor choice, so long as you ignore the sick feeling in the pit of your stomach, you might immediately feel immensely rewarded from it. “Wow look, I don’t have to go to work anymore! Everyone is treating me like a high-roller. I feel so rich, look at these huge profits I’m making in my casino wins! Everyone wants to be around me, I’m so cool and awesome and likable! I’m having a great time with my life! I don’t need to go to work, I don’t need to wake up early, I don’t need to listen to my boss anymore. I am my own boss. I am powerful, I am lucky, I am free, I am living my dream!”
“Wow, what a wonderful result! This was a great decision!” You might think, and your reality will deeply reinforce that immediately. The short term gains are obviously not going to be long-held, and soon your life will begin to fall apart, but not before experiencing the intense high of leaking away all your spiritual gifts and all your joy. This is the road to perdition. It isn’t always so wonderful and glamorous, as there are many roads that lead to perdition, but they do all lead to the same place. And we assure you, nothing can change your circumstances once you arrive except the long, difficult process of turning around and righting every single wrong you made, one by one.
“Wow, what a wonderful result! This was a great decision!” You might think, and your reality will deeply reinforce that immediately. The short term gains are obviously not going to be long-held, and soon your life will begin to fall apart, but not before experiencing the intense high of leaking away all your spiritual gifts and all your joy. This is the road to perdition. It isn’t always so wonderful and glamorous, as there are many roads that lead to perdition, but they do all lead to the same place. And we assure you, nothing can change your circumstances once you arrive except the long, difficult process of turning around and righting every single wrong you made, one by one.
No one will come and fix it for you because no one can. All those who celebrated you on the way down will not be lifting you up when you have fallen. All those who loved you before cannot continue to support you when you are down because they would lose themselves in the process, and you had long since left them behind by ignoring their concerns. Perdition is a terrible place to be and an insane place to decide to go.
No one will come and fix it for you because no one can. All those who celebrated you on the way down will not be lifting you up when you have fallen. All those who loved you before cannot continue to support you when you are down because they would lose themselves in the process, and you had long since left them behind by ignoring their concerns. Perdition is a terrible place to be and an insane place to decide to go.
Now that we are clear on the obvious power of poor decision-making, what if we reverse the principles and instead make excellent decisions? Let’s look at one of our favorite subjects; love and romance. Imagine you are in a place where you feel pretty good about yourself and you are ready for a romantic relationship. You are in a healthy situation and feel you can have the relationship you desire.
Now that we are clear on the obvious power of poor decision-making, what if we reverse the principles and instead make excellent decisions? Let’s look at one of our favorite subjects; love and romance. Imagine you are in a place where you feel pretty good about yourself and you are ready for a romantic relationship. You are in a healthy situation and feel you can have the relationship you desire.
Let’s imagine you are scrolling through all the beautiful, attractive people on Tinder and find many, many wonderful options. But now that you have so many options before you, so many amazing, fantastic people, most of us don’t think “Wow, look at all these great people! How will I ever decide and pick just one?” We usually become exponentially more selective. Let’s imagine you pick one, the one with the nicest hair and the kindest smile. You’re great at dating and you have a wonderful time, but there are some drawbacks and compromises you would have to make with this one if you were to get into a relationship with them. And there was another in your large pool of options who was much warmer and more friendly than this one! So your mind wanders and maybe you try out some of your other options.
Let’s imagine you are scrolling through all the beautiful, attractive people on Tinder and find many, many wonderful options. But now that you have so many options before you, so many amazing, fantastic people, most of us don’t think “Wow, look at all these great people! How will I ever decide and pick just one?” We usually become exponentially more selective. Let’s imagine you pick one, the one with the nicest hair and the kindest smile. You’re great at dating and you have a wonderful time, but there are some drawbacks and compromises you would have to make with this one if you were to get into a relationship with them. And there was another in your large pool of options who was much warmer and more friendly than this one! So your mind wanders and maybe you try out some of your other options.
After exploring several dozen excellent options you realize you aren’t going to get everything you want. Your friends tell you that you should “Get realistic,” and that “You’re never going to find the perfect person, why not just settle for someone because it’s better than no one! You’re not getting any younger!”
But somewhere in your heart you recognize that you do desire the perfect person. You are not going to be satisfied with anyone except for the perfect person, your Twin Flame. So you read Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover and you manifest them! WOW…THAT WORKED!
But *le sigh* they are not very interested in you. And here we are, we have a choice to make! Being able to manifest them but not being able to be with them in the way you like is the result of all the choices we made before. We are right now what we previously decided to create for ourselves and this is a moment of opportunity. This is the moment to make a choice!
After exploring several dozen excellent options you realize you aren’t going to get everything you want. Your friends tell you that you should “Get realistic,” and that “You’re never going to find the perfect person, why not just settle for someone because it’s better than no one! You’re not getting any younger!”
But somewhere in your heart you recognize that you do desire the perfect person. You are not going to be satisfied with anyone except for the perfect person, your Twin Flame. So you read Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover and you manifest them! WOW…THAT WORKED!
But *le sigh* they are not very interested in you. And here we are, we have a choice to make! Being able to manifest them but not being able to be with them in the way you like is the result of all the choices we made before. We are right now what we previously decided to create for ourselves and this is a moment of opportunity. This is the moment to make a choice!
Some people, many, many people… Most people I encounter at this time absolutely refuse to acknowledge what their Twin Flame person is showing them about themselves. They absolutely refuse to acknowledge that they are not vibrating in harmony with their desires and that they will have to change in order to have the relationship they desire. Usually what I see are people trying to cling to their old ways. A lot of people will work really, really hard to try to convince their Twin Flame of the relationship they want, instead of putting that energy into the inner work. Control is not proper etiquette when it comes to Twin Flames.
So, we have a choice. We can either take the spiritual journey of transformation, or we can settle. We cannot force reality to change to our liking, we must change ourselves in order to experience a different reality. You’re not going to get your Twin Flame to change, you must change. Let’s imagine we do decide to change ourselves, to work on ourselves, to heal ourselves so that we can have Harmonious Twin Flame Union. So we equip ourselves right and get ourselves a Twin Flame Ascension Coach, we invest in the Everything Package and we get serious about the inner work.
Making the choice will change little immediately in your reality.
“You wanted a lover and you were going on dates and meeting people, but now you’ve abandoned that and instead you’re alone at home taking classes and getting coaching?”
Your friends might say. And you can tell them “Yes,” yes you are. You respect yourself. You honor your experience and the conclusions you came to through your experiences, so you’re not going to decide to do the insane thing and try to do the same thing as before and expect different results, nor are you willing to compromise. This is the attitude of success, this is the attitude of someone who loves themselves.
Some people, many, many people… Most people I encounter at this time absolutely refuse to acknowledge what their Twin Flame person is showing them about themselves. They absolutely refuse to acknowledge that they are not vibrating in harmony with their desires and that they will have to change in order to have the relationship they desire. Usually what I see are people trying to cling to their old ways. A lot of people will work really, really hard to try to convince their Twin Flame of the relationship they want, instead of putting that energy into the inner work. Control is not proper etiquette when it comes to Twin Flames.
So, we have a choice. We can either take the spiritual journey of transformation, or we can settle. We cannot force reality to change to our liking, we must change ourselves in order to experience a different reality. You’re not going to get your Twin Flame to change, you must change. Let’s imagine we do decide to change ourselves, to work on ourselves, to heal ourselves so that we can have Harmonious Twin Flame Union. So we equip ourselves right and get ourselves a Twin Flame Ascension Coach, we invest in the Everything Package and we get serious about the inner work.
Making the choice will change little immediately in your reality.
“You wanted a lover and you were going on dates and meeting people, but now you’ve abandoned that and instead you’re alone at home taking classes and getting coaching?”
Your friends might say. And you can tell them “Yes,” yes you are. You respect yourself. You honor your experience and the conclusions you came to through your experiences, so you’re not going to decide to do the insane thing and try to do the same thing as before and expect different results, nor are you willing to compromise. This is the attitude of success, this is the attitude of someone who loves themselves.
To work you go. You invest a considerable amount of energy into yourself and you discover some very unsavory things about yourself. This makes you feel very, very uncomfortable. But fortunately for you, you built relationships with others on their Twin Flame journey who have your back! It took a lot of time and energy to invest into those relationships, but it was fun and natural and easy since you’re both headed the same way! And during those hard times, your Twin Flames Universe friends look out for you, and you look out for them when you see them going through their hard times too. That’s the power of community.
Maybe a few years go by and you still have no relationship to show for it. Some of the Twin Flame Ascension School students got their HTFU (Harmonious Twin Flame Union) quickly, why not you? The consequences of your choices are unavoidable, and making a new choice now is disrespectful to you. You should follow through all the way to the end of the journey, and that end is attaining your desires. Imagine you keep going, passionately engaging in the inner journey, the spiritual process of Twin Flame Ascension.
Inevitably, the tides will turn and your choices will catch up with you. Ready or not, believe it or not, the consequences of your choices will come crashing into you. There is only one choice you can make which you will absolutely welcome like the perfect refreshing waters of Life Itself, and that’s the choice of Love. So what do you honestly think will happen when you choose the path of unconditional self-love? That is where the Teachings of Union are leading you! So what else could you expect to happen but that your dreams will come true?
To work you go. You invest a considerable amount of energy into yourself and you discover some very unsavory things about yourself. This makes you feel very, very uncomfortable. But fortunately for you, you built relationships with others on their Twin Flame journey who have your back! It took a lot of time and energy to invest into those relationships, but it was fun and natural and easy since you’re both headed the same way! And during those hard times, your Twin Flames Universe friends look out for you, and you look out for them when you see them going through their hard times too. That’s the power of community.
Maybe a few years go by and you still have no relationship to show for it. Some of the Twin Flame Ascension School students got their HTFU quickly, why not you? The consequences of your choices are unavoidable, and making a new choice now is disrespectful to you. You should follow through all the way to the end of the journey, and that end is attaining your desires. Imagine you keep going, passionately engaging in the inner journey, the spiritual process of Twin Flame Ascension.
Inevitably, the tides will turn and your choices will catch up with you. Ready or not, believe it or not, the consequences of your choices will come crashing into you. There is only one choice you can make which you will absolutely welcome like the perfect refreshing waters of Life Itself, and that’s the choice of Love. So what do you honestly think will happen when you choose the path of unconditional self-love? That is where the Teachings of Union are leading you! So what else could you expect to happen but that your dreams will come true?
After years of working on your finances and loving yourself there, it doesn’t matter if you started out a deeply indebted gambling addict. If you loved yourself there truly, day in and day out, you worked out the underlying causes for your addiction and addressed them completely, you worked out the underlying reasons for your poverty, you loved yourself there, what do you think will happen? It doesn’t matter where you came from, it only matters where you’re going. You chose to love yourself there! Of course you’re going to step out of poverty and into prosperity! Of course you will! Of course you will.
After years of working on your finances and loving yourself there, it doesn’t matter if you started out a deeply indebted gambling addict. If you loved yourself there truly, day in and day out, you worked out the underlying causes for your addiction and addressed them completely, you worked out the underlying reasons for your poverty, you loved yourself there, what do you think will happen? It doesn’t matter where you came from, it only matters where you’re going. You chose to love yourself there! Of course you’re going to step out of poverty and into prosperity! Of course you will! Of course you will.
And along the way you worked on your relationship with yourself. You worked on your health and wellness. You worked on your beauty and your style. You worked on your relationship with your body. You worked on your joy. You worked on your career and Life Purpose. You worked on your relationships with others. You worked on loving your inner child. You worked on healing every block, upset, challenge, difficulty, problem, and issue that arose. Every day without fail. What did you think was going to happen?
Maybe you started out and you had less time to spend with friends. Less time to attend parties. Less time to go on vacations. Less time to go out. No time for dates. No time for bad romances. You had less money to spend on frivolities. You spent less time seeking temporary joys and so you had less temporary joys uplifting you in your life. You spent more time working through upsets and difficulties and healing your inner blocks, and so you spent more time feeling your depression, feeling your upsets, feeling your inner difficulties. All this, to the fool, would appear to be the result of an obviously unwise choice.
And along the way you worked on your relationship with yourself. You worked on your health and wellness. You worked on your beauty and your style. You worked on your relationship with your body. You worked on your joy. You worked on your career and Life Purpose. You worked on your relationships with others. You worked on loving your inner child. You worked on healing every block, upset, challenge, difficulty, problem, and issue that arose. Every day without fail. What did you think was going to happen?
Maybe you started out and you had less time to spend with friends. Less time to attend parties. Less time to go on vacations. Less time to go out. No time for dates. No time for bad romances. You had less money to spend on frivolities. You spent less time seeking temporary joys and so you had less temporary joys uplifting you in your life. You spent more time working through upsets and difficulties and healing your inner blocks, and so you spent more time feeling your depression, feeling your upsets, feeling your inner difficulties. All this, to the fool, would appear to be the result of an obviously unwise choice.
I have heard this from the family members of so many students. “She used to go out and party and be a normal, social lady, but now all she does is hang out in her room and watch TFAS!” It’s like they think their child got into drugs or started a toxic comic book habit, when in reality they are transforming their lives like a caterpillar who became a cocoon.
What did you think was going to happen to the hungry caterpillar when they stopped consuming leaves and began constructing a cocoon? Of COURSE they’re going to transform into that butterfly! Of course they are. Of course you are!
And so, you who decided you would make the choice, take the steps, do the work, and heal yourself… You will have Harmonious Union. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard my students complain day after day “He’s not talking to me, he’s not texting me!” And I take them again and again through the inner work and they heal. And then, they get the inevitable results and they tell everyone:
I have heard this from the family members of so many students. “She used to go out and party and be a normal, social lady, but now all she does is hang out in her room and watch TFAS!” It’s like they think their child got into drugs or started a toxic comic book habit, when in reality they are transforming their lives like a caterpillar who became a cocoon.
What did you think was going to happen to the hungry caterpillar when they stopped consuming leaves and began constructing a cocoon? Of COURSE they’re going to transform into that butterfly! Of course they are. Of course you are!
And so, you who decided you would make the choice, take the steps, do the work, and heal yourself… You will have Harmonious Union. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard my students complain day after day “He’s not talking to me, he’s not texting me!” And I take them again and again through the inner work and they heal. And then, they get the inevitable results and they tell everyone:
“He texted me! We had a four hour-long phone call and had a ‘come to Jesus’ moment!”
“We’re going on a date tomorrow!”
“We’re moving in together at the end of the month!”
“He bought a ticket from Australia to come see me!”
And on and on it goes.
Today is the result of your past choices that have finally caught up with you. Look honestly at the choices you have made. Today is also the result of the past choices of the people who came before you and whose shoulders you stand upon. Their choices are woven into the fabric of your life. Get really honest with yourself and don’t blame them for their failure to meet your needs and go ahead and begin the work of meeting your own needs. Heal the patterns and traumas that got passed on to you. You can do it. You will do it. You do not have to do it alone.
“He texted me! We had a four hour-long phone call and had a ‘come to Jesus’ moment!”
“We’re going on a date tomorrow!”
“We’re moving in together at the end of the month!”
“He bought a ticket from Australia to come see me!”
And on and on it goes.
Today is the result of your past choices that have finally caught up with you. Look honestly at the choices you have made. Today is also the result of the past choices of the people who came before you and whose shoulders you stand upon. Their choices are woven into the fabric of your life. Get really honest with yourself and don’t blame them for their failure to meet your needs and go ahead and begin the work of meeting your own needs. Heal the patterns and traumas that got passed on to you. You can do it. You will do it. You do not have to do it alone.
When you are ready, come and find us. We are the way-showers to a beautiful life, the one your heart is calling for. Listen to the quiet voice in your heart that tells you that you can have love. You can do it, let us help you. We are here for you when you are ready.
All our love,
Jeff and Shaleia
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