How Being in Alignment With Yourself Naturally Manifests Twin Flame Union

It can feel almost impossible to be in alignment with yourself and be accepted and loved these days. The dating world makes you feel like you have to change yourself constantly to get someone’s attention. Once you have their attention, then you get to show your true self? This is a losing game.

I used to think this losing game was the only game until I understood how manifestation really works. Turns out that being in alignment with your true self is the key for all things to flow easily in your life. I am now happily married to the love of my life, and we have a baby together.

How Manifestation Works

“Thoughts become things. If you see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand.” —Bob Proctor

If we define “manifestation,” as the act of making something real, then we have to start with getting clear about what we would like to make real in our lives. An easy way to do this is to write a Love List. This is a list of all the qualities we desire in the thing we’re manifesting – perhaps a new home, a loving relationship or any other dream in your heart.

A love list also helps us clarify what we really value. In writing a Love List for our perfect partner, for instance, we might list what we value in a relationship–deep respect, a love for life, desire for children, and more.

Tips on writing your desires to manifest them

I encourage you to steer away from surface attributes like “blue eyes, owns a Jaguar and has a six pack.” Instead, look at what those surface things are deeply pointing to. A healthy lifestyle? Financial abundance? List those meaningful qualities instead. Stuck on what to list? Start with what you DON’T want, and work from there.

Once you make a Love List, you’ve created a beautiful list of qualities and values to align to in your own life. Healing with the Mirror Exercise is a great way to help with this alignment, as it supports you to release any internal blocks you have to these things showing up in your life. As you heal, you align to your truest self, and this high vibration attracts all things you desire into your reality.

An example:

In my own life, I created a detailed Love List for my perfect partner. It included things like “love of God, freedom from addictions, values family and wants children, they’re creative, romantic, and more.” I worked through all these things in my own life–mirroring any blocks to having them in my life. And sure enough, my Twin called me up out of the blue asking me about some of the very things I put on my list! The result? We are now married and have a beautiful baby girl.

Another great way to be in alignment with yourself and manifest the life you love is to use meditation. Can you imagine the life you’d like to live? Can you visualize giving yourself all the goodness you desire in your reality? Can you also imagine releasing anything in the way of those things occurring in your life? This practice will help you align to your highest good and attract it into your life.

This secret helps being in alignment with your dreams

Something else to keep in mind is that your perfect life, your perfect union, your perfect work, are all already yours. It can be easy to feel like you have to “make it happen” through hard effort. It’s actually just a matter of releasing what is in the way of it, being in alignment with your highest self, that brings it into your reality. In other words, it’s about committing to yourself and releasing what isn’t in alignment with your greatest good. You also have the power to choose for the path to be peaceful, even fun, and you’ll be amazed at what opens up for you.

Ready to manifest your perfect partner and perfect life? Listen to and follow your heart, and being in alignment with yourself and your good will be easy. This quiz is a good place to start, too.

Written by C.F.