When you commit to loving yourself and you don’t give up, your Twin Flame will commit to you. This is the promise of the inner work and the Twin Flame journey. Paco and Déborah’s story shows just that: after a beautiful healing journey, Paco and Déborah came into Union, Paco proposed, they achieved Harmonious Twin Flame Union and just recently got married. Their civil ceremony earlier this year, and then their beautiful religious ceremony this month in the Church of Union*, shows what beautiful results can unfold for you when you choose to love yourself and commit to your dreams coming true.
The Foundation for a Beautiful Wedding
Paco and Déborah’s wedding day was deeply special for them and, at the same time, felt just like any other day. “We had made the choice to be cool about us getting married,” Paco says. Since they had found the truth of their marriage within when they came into Harmonious Union, their wedding day was about embracing the Union they’ve always had together and finally making the permanent and physical commitment to it and each other.
Celebrating Their Sacred Union
“We had a very private and quiet wedding ceremony in the library of our city, which looks over the river, and is one of our favorite parts of town,” Déborah says. Desiring to feel at home in Austria even though it’s not her native home, Déborah found an officiant who made sure that it was easy for her to understand everything, as she came prepared with perfect translations for all documents and procedures. “She even looked for the Spanish translation to a saying they have in Austria about the bride,” says Déborah, happily. “We thought it will be more of a legal act, but it wasn’t. It was way more than that,” Paco says. “Throughout the whole wedding, God’s presence was blessing us and loving us up deeply.”
When Paco and Déborah stood at the altar, he in his royal blue suit, she in her sparkling teal dress, and they made their vows of eternal love to each other and to the Divine. They kissed and began their magical married life together, forever.
The Beginning of a Beautiful Life
Paco and Déborah spent the rest of their special day receiving this new level of love and enjoying each other’s company, as always. “We toasted to our new chapter, took some pics and goofed around, before changing back into something more comfortable and just relaxing into the rest of our evening,” says Déborah.
Their marriage was a gentle deepening of the love they’ve always shared.“I just love my wife on a deeper level,” Paco says. “I feel so attracted to her every day. Our marriage feels like a never ending, uplifting togetherness.”
The beauty and peace of a Twin Flame marriage comes from making loving yourself and resolving challenges your lifestyle. Déborah says, “Being officially married feels more grounded, like, we can relax even more in our Union. I feel like it solidifies even more our choice to remain together and work on our relationship, no matter the challenges that may arise. Every step was always going deeper into this choice, and us getting married just made it even more tangible.”
To those dreaming of their own beautiful Twin Flame wedding, Déborah says, “What makes it possible to transform this dream into a reality is the willingness to keep moving forward and to choose Love at every turn. Respect all your feelings along the way. Every little thing can support you in healing through something that allows you to come closer to your dream of being married to your Twin Flame.”
Love yourself through every step of your journey, and your marriage with your Beloved Twin Flame will perfectly unfold.
Even Deeper Commitment
As a joyful addition to Paco and Déborah’s divine love story, they recently deepened their marriage with the religious ceremony through the Church of Union (CoU) earlier this month. They came together with many of their favorite people from the Twin Flames Universe community including fellow students and their long-time Ascension Coaches, Daniel and Cristina, in a lovely ceremony that was recorded and shared on the official Church of Union Youtube channel.
When asked about how it felt to get married in the CoU to their one true love, Paco and Déborah said it felt “very peaceful, to be honest…It’s like coming full circle with a life-long dream of being married to the person of our dreams, our Twin Flame. And to have the wedding be performed by our beloved Chrissy and Jason, who’ve been with us since the very beginning, is such a high privilege and honor. We honestly couldn’t have asked for a better wedding ceremony than the one we had through the Church.”
It has always been important to both Paco and Déborah to have their marriage officiated in the Church of Union since coming together as true Twin Flames. “It is thanks to the Church of Union and its Teachings that we were able to find each other, and not only come together, but stay together and be able to get married,” they said. “We feel oftentimes we (people) underestimate how challenging it can be to be together with your Twin Flame, and to have a complete support system that helps you navigate those challenges becomes essential.” The Church, teachings and community have all been foundational pieces in both their Twin Flame journey and now their beautiful, healthy marriage; they truly would not have made it here without them.
Family Matters
It’s the people who love and support you through it all that become like family. When you receive love and support to grow and achieve your goals in life, it’s natural and feels good to honor those who always showed up for you. “We couldn’t imagine being Twin Flames married in Harmonious Union and not come full circle with our journey together by sharing this incredible gift of becoming husband and wife with our friends and spiritual family who had been there with us since the very beginning, watching our love story unfold, helping us grow, and supporting us in overcoming each obstacle towards our Harmonious Twin Flame Union.”
It truly takes a whole village to raise a Harmonious Union and you never need to worry about being loved and supported all the way to your own Twin Flame wedding. It wasn’t meant to be done alone and it’s safe to receive the support you need to claim yours.
Who knows? Maybe one day you’ll be sitting next to your beloved Twin Flame saying “I do” being cheered on by all the people who never stopped believing in you and your love. What a beautiful pinnacle to an epic love story that would be, just like Paco and Déborah’s.
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*Edited to include COU wedding
Written by Sage Woodward and Stephanie Zimmermann
Edited by Stephanie Zimmermann
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