This experience is about letting go of your old self and beliefs. It is a very beautiful and wonderful thing, because it means coming closer to your Twin Flame. It means being in harmony with who you are at your core.
When you invite Divine Love into your life, you are attracting your Twin Flame. They are your Ultimate Lover, your best friend, your teacher and your partner because they are the embodiment of Divine Love.
In the presence of Unconditional Love, there’s no room for your old way of being. When you choose Love, you are inviting more of who you truly are into your life. And as you do that you’re going to realise that you are experiencing less and less suffering. Instead, you’re going to experience greater happiness, peace and joy.
These changes may be surprising to you. Mostly because for a long time, maybe you believed that choosing ego, separation and duality felt good, while choosing Divine Love felt bad. This is absolutely not true. That’s why the purpose of a dark night of the soul is to help you let go of suffering and embrace Love instead.
Shaleia once shared that, growing up Catholic she went to church every Sunday until she was eighteen years old. She noticed that her religious community was also holding on to the idea of suffering.
There was the image of Jesus being crucified on the altar. It represented this belief that you have to suffer to get your Good. But Jesus did not suffer. That is the whole point of Jesus’ resurrection. To show you that there is no suffering. There is no real death. Jesus’ message was:
“You can’t attack my body. It may appear like you’re attacking me, but you’re not because attack is not real.”