So you’re committed to your Twin Flame Union. You might be even diligently loving yourself with the Mirror Exercise which makes you irresistible for your Twin Flame. But how do you know when you’re close? Keep scrolling for seven signs that your Twin Flame Union is imminent.
[New to this path and wondering what the Mirror Exercise is? Learn more about this transformational spiritual tool in Jeff and Shaleia’s book Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover.]
1. You choose to develop a growing love from within.
You know you’re nearing Twin Flame Union when you fully understand that you can’t get love from outside of yourself. You stop reaching outward for it and turn inward instead. This also means you do not see your Twin Flame as separate from you. You know that the love of your Twin Flame Union is within, that it is real, and that you can actively grow it by communicating with that love internally. You recognize that you and your Twin Flame are intimately One at the core, sharing the same heart space and this is enough for you.
2. You choose to honor your heart’s highest calling for love above all else.
Love is your birthright. Succeeding at the Mirror Exercise and dissolving fear is the way to Twin Flame Union and to experiencing the love that already exists in your heart. When you honor your heart’s highest calling for love, that means none of the naysayers can dissuade you from the path to Twin Flame Union. Your close associates or acquaintances, such as your social circle or your family members, might suggest giving up the Twin Flame ascension path in exchange for an easy, non-spiritual relationship and a life of emotional numbness, but you refuse to follow the crowd! This is because you are aware that your heart desires something pure, real, magnificent and complete. Your heart is calling for what Cinderella got, what all the classic Disney movies portray. When you consistently honor that call in your heart and know you will never settle for less, it means you are ready for Twin Flame Union.
3. You choose to honor your inner voice above any other voice that says you can’t do it.
There will be plenty of opportunities for your inner critic to pop up with loud opinions and even louder tantrums as you persevere with the Mirror Exercise and your inner work. Pursuing your Twin Flame Union requires a lot of discipline and commitment. It requires that you go all in with yourself. Your inner critic (and outer critics) might try to deter you, but these voices don’t matter. Your inner Divine voice does. Ignore the naysayers and skeptics. You can have your perfect Union with your Twin Flame! Don’t listen to any voice that says otherwise. You honor your inner voice by continually choosing love and God and yourself at every fork in the road. This choice will become more automatic with time.
4. You have let go of attachments.
Letting go of attachments doesn’t mean releasing the desire to be in your Twin Flame Union, but you let go of control of how your Twin Flame comes to you and who your Twin Flame is. This is what being non-attached means. You are increasingly grateful, peaceful and content in the present moment, exactly how you are now, and with fewer and fewer anxious thoughts about the future. When you can accept the present moment fully and let go of the desire to control your Twin Flame and the future, you can be sure you are nearing Twin Flame Union.
5. You’re passionate about healing the spiritual blocks as they arise and you do it effectively.
You can only ever serve one master, either fear or Love. This means you have to release any old thoughts or behavior patterns that are unloving, unkind and untrue. Then, you can welcome in thoughts that are loving, kind and true, because those thoughts will attract your Union. You have to have the courage to make this choice. It’s like that Rumi quote: “If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?” Be willing to feel into any and all discomfort and work through it.
6. You’ve accepted that there is nobody else for you and that you will have nobody else, period.
After Shaleia’s false twin flame experience, she decided that there was nobody else for her on the planet that she could be happy with but her True Twin Flame. After making this choice, Shaleia still went on dates and explored the attractions she felt, searching for her One True Love. But usually between 1 and 3 dates Shaleia could tell if she needed to phase this person out based on her Love List. [Find out more about creating your Twin Flame Love List here] She would check to see if each person she dated matched her Love List and decided not to continue seeing them if she could tell that their values did not align or if they didn’t share certain core qualities like integrity or the ability to be a good parent, for example.
7. You read the signs along your path honestly and you work through your spiritual blocks honestly.
Whatever comes up for you to heal in the Now, you choose to honor and work with it Now. The journey to Twin Flame Union is a continuously unfolding process of becoming increasingly aware. This includes awareness of thoughts and emotions as they arise and living from a space of compassion, gratitude and forgiveness. As you work through your spiritual blocks honestly, you will notice that loving yourself perfectly is a very small price to pay for your Twin Flame Union. It is more like a journey of having your cake and eating it too!
If you read through this list and resonate with all of these signs, then take a minute to honor your hard work! Your Twin Flame Union is inevitable.
Not experiencing many signs yet? That’s okay! Remember this path is all about your spiritual growth. It’s all about the journey, not the destination. The healing process unfolds at the perfect pace for you and miracles will occur as quickly as you will allow them to.
If you are manifesting your Twin Flame Union, know that you are not alone, and you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself. The journey to Twin Flame Union is your ascension path, and you deserve to receive support. We are offering FREE consultations with our expertly trained and experienced Twin Flame coaches. Each one of these coaches has worked directly with Jeff and Shaleia extensively and they are here specifically to help YOU get into your Union.
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