“The price of freedom is faith.”
I know that being Divine Feminine in my Twin Flame Union in a predominately Divine Feminine industry, that the majority of people are going to be seeking and/or expecting the woman of the Union to be the one primarily teaching about Twin Flames, and how to heal separation from one’s own Twin Flame (usually from the Divine Masculine). But what appears to be counter-intuitive is exactly the medicine the Divine Feminine of her Twin Flame Union needs: a Divine Masculine Twin Flame spiritual teacher demonstrating and teaching how to heal Twin Flame separation and enter permanent Harmonious Union.
The truth is, all Divine Feminines who are subscribed (or have yet to subscribe) to Twin Flame Ascension School have serious issues with their Divine Masculine complement, and in order to properly and effectively heal that separation, it’s important for them to learn from and be in the presence of a healed Divine Masculine Twin Flame who has his Harmonious Union and who can offer them the DM healing that they’ve never had or been exposed to. Jeff offers up the reality of what Divine Feminine Twin Flames are seeking: a truly conscious spiritual man (Divine Masculine) whose spiritual ascension path is his relationship with God and his relationship with his Twin Flame… and he doesn’t take your bullshit.
You know what I mean ladies! You’re ALWAYS testing the strength of your man, and not his physical strength either but his emotional, spiritual, and psychological strength. You desire your Twin Flame because you desire a man who can actually handle you because he’s designed to. ❤️
When I test Jeff’s strength and try to push him around, NOT ONCE has he cowered and “agreed” with me or ran away and hid from me (please see our video on Healing the Twin Flame Runner/Chaser Dynamic). You might think you’re different from me, but you’re not. You demand presence and strength in your man (Divine Masculine) but in-so-doing, your Twin Flame is also teaching you by loving you through not accepting your bullshit, and turning your attention back to doing the Mirror Exercise, and getting your love from God and not from anyone outside of you. This is what you desire from your Twin Flame because you know it’s him loving you, and you actually feel much better and relaxed when he “puts you in your place” through loving and compassionate discipline. Your Twin Flame is already doing this now in a sense so you can heal separation from them.
Jeff can handle you as his spiritual student (whether you’re the Divine Feminine or Divine Masculine) and all the ego and challenges you throw at him because he can handle me. Any man I’ve dated from the past can all agree that I am not easy to handle. Not only do I have a big energy that can bulldoze anything over, but I demand perfection in myself, my lover, and everywhere else in my reality. That is why I am good at what I do of bringing Twin Flames together in Harmonious Union. Jeff might be the one that speaks the most, but I primarily teach through my healing presence, through role-modeling my Divine Femininity in my Union, through holding space, and speaking only when God guides me. And when I do speak, it is powerful and everyone listens intently. With Jeff doing most of the speaking in class, I’m doing significant inner spiritual and emotional work so he can be more “external” and teach directly to students. The few times in Twin Flame Ascension School where I was primarily speaking and teaching to the class, Jeff noticed how he automatically became “inner” in order to hold space for the teaching coming through me.
I had to significantly heal my father and Divine Masculine issues, especially surrounding (my) abandonment and spiritual unconsciousness, in order to be open enough in love to attract my Twin Flame. I notice one of the main issues for the DF Twin Flame is that they try to control their DM to love them and give them attention, or have their emotional, sexual, and spiritual needs fulfilled by them (a sad but popular Twin Flame search is “when will the Divine Masculine come home??”), but Union is a spiritual love in nature and your DM is teaching you how to release control instead for unconditional love and acceptance, and go to your beloved Creator to get the love you need. You can’t try and get love from your Twin Flame… it’ll never work. You “get” love by opening up to receiving love from your beloved God/Creator who loves you more than you know. You then grow that feeling of love inside you and this naturally attracts your Twin Flame to you (this is the opposite approach to getting a soul mate relationship and it’s guaranteed to work!).
Nobody in their right mind wants to feel like another’s happiness, love, and joy comes from them, that’s exhausting and it’s not your proper place. Eventually, you will find yourself increasingly magnetic to your Twin Flame, and the Mirror Exercise work we teach in our book will have profound healing effects on both you and your Twin Flame because you share One Consciousness. The spiritual and healing work you do is revealed in your Twin Flame’s auric field and overall consciousness that begins to shift their reality to open up to you. A surprising benefit that exists in no other relationship in existence BUT your Twin Flame Union. And so, Twin Flame separation is healed!
The benefit for Divine Masculines who are or will subscribe to Twin Flame Ascension School, is that they learn how to heal and claim their own Divine Masculinity by Jeff teaching and role-modeling what the energy of Divine Masculine is, and how this attracts their Divine Feminine complement, as well as receive the perspective and healing the Divine Feminines of the school bring to the table. The same is true for Divine Feminines interacting and learning from all Divine Masculines in TFAS. We all heal Twin Flame separation together as a community and as a collective. Jeff has disciplined me many times in class and it is helpful, healing, and informative for all to see what partnership with one’s Twin Flame looks like, and how to know when you’re the student or the teacher of your Union in every moment you are connected or connecting with your Twin Flame. It’s also very helpful and healing to see when Jeff is actively helping me with my spiritual work when I am visibly experiencing an upset in a class, or, when Jeff needs my nurturing love and support and I hold space for his healing. The world needs to see what a successful and evolved Harmonious Twin Flame Union is and looks like.