“Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, focus your energy on what you can create.”  ― Roy Bennett



The little faerie girl in the picture is not focused on anything happening outside of her (thus she’s not leaking her precious power away).  She is authentically happy in the moment, focused on her inner world, and being her True Self. This is very attractive and magnetic to manifesting your Twin Flame.  You are choosing to focus on you, doing what brings you enjoyment (enjoyment is a very high vibrational state of Being), and expressing yourself authentically without fear of being unloved for it in each and every moment.  Not worrying about how you should be in order to get your Twin Flame via any sort of “rules” of dating, socializing, etc, helps you recognize deeper how to achieve your harmonious Twin Flame Union.



You being truly YOU is very attractive to your Twin Flame, and you DOING you without having to wait on anyone or anything to do it with is attractive to your Twin Flame.  Your inner child (aka You!) LOVES when you do activities that bring you pleasure and enjoyment.  Look at the picture of this girl, her Twin Flame could easily approach her and be interested in playing with her and spending time with her engaging in the same activity without feeling that she is dependent on him to be happy.  There’s a real innocence here that is expressed when you are focused on loving yourself and needing nothing or no one outside of you to fulfill you.



If you need a little assistance in moving in the direction of this happy and authentically you path, then ask the Divine to help inspire you with ideas that make you feel creative and playful; or dress in a way that makes you feel happy, if you have a creative idea and vision that needs to be expressed (and could possibly be turned into a business venture) then you are guided to begin heading in that direction.  Perhaps there’s a hobby or activity that you’ve always been interested in but have yet to really explore it like hiking, dancing, riding a horse, photography, and playing games (yes, that includes video games, because we love to play games in various outlets as a form of personal expression and pleasure!).



Lastly, as a romantic gesture toward yourself and/or your Twin Flame, buy yourself (or them) a bouquet of beautiful flowers.  If you’re inspired you can also find a nice nature area and create your own natural bouquet of flowers, herbs, and branches, etc. Get creative!  Everyone in their heart of hearts love receiving flowers and having a beautiful arrangement in their home.  Flowers were created by the Divine to fill your heart with beauty, enjoyment, and love.  This is certainly an energy you would like to invite inside your home.  Or as an alternative, spend some time in a garden, or in nature appreciating its beauty.


You may also be guided in investing in some essential oils and diffuse these Divine scents in your home and also rub them on your body. Placing some rose essential oil over your heart chakra helps open up and heal your heart, and using lavender oil helps you relieve stress and be calm so you can remain focused and clear.



Loving Your Ever Blossoming Heart,

~Jeff and Shaleia~



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Today’s reading is courtesy of Doreen Virtue’s “Magical Messages from the Fairies Oracle Cards.”

Jeff and Shaleia are true Twin Flames in harmonious Union.  This is currently a very rare experience on this planet although their pioneering work in Twin Flames is changing this statistic.  In their Twin Flame Ascension School they are teaching the truth of Twin Flame Union as a direct Ascension Path to the Divine.  Committing to your harmonious Union is in actuality committing to your spiritual path of Ascension, in other words, dissolving your ego and claiming your Divinity fully at the right side of your Mother/Father God.

Jeff has his BBA from Western Michigan University and has created businesses in the past based on self-development and lifestyle design.  Shaleia attended Laurentian University for Psychology with a minor focus on Women Studies.  She has a degree in Graphic Design and graduated with Honors in Digital Photography and Imaging at Georgian College.  She consciously began her ascension path when she was 18 years old with her studies in Taoism, A Course In Miracles, Channeling, Reiki certification, and other forms of energy healing work.

Shaleia met her spiritual teacher in Sedona, AZ in 2012 where she began healing separation from her Twin Flame with the spiritual tools and knowledge that were passed down to her.  Jeff joined her sessions later on and they have now mastered their harmonious Twin Flame Union which has enabled them to teach it to others.  They got married in January 2016, and have a sweet golden doodle puppy named Charlie.

They are authors of the beloved Twin Flame book: “Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover,” on Amazon.  Jeff and Shaleia also developed two ecourses to assist you into your harmonious Twin Flame Union: Their first 24 lesson course guarantees harmonious Union is “Twin Flames: Dreams Coming True.”  Their 8 lesson course called “Twin Flames: Romance Attraction” teaches you how to develop true love within to increase your magnetism and beauty for manifesting and deepening your Twin Flame Union.  This course also guarantees your harmonious Twin Flame Union.

He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them.  And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.  Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.  And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.”  -Matthew 18:2-5