7. You continue to maintain all of your values and ensure any potential romantic interest you meet shares your values with you before you’re willing to get romantically involved with them.
So you’re not going, “Oooh I feel good about you, maybe it’s you! Let’s date! Let me invest in you. You might be my Twin Flame, here’s all of my love!” Soon you’ll go, “Well, that didn’t work out. They wanted to marry me, but ultimately I wanted kids and they didn’t.” That means you didn’t share essential core values, so you wasted all of that time. Right off the bat, pull out your Love List and if you share some values with them but definitely not these other values, then just go, “Next!” Easy. Dealbreakers; figure them out quick and fast. What are your dealbreakers? Don’t waste your time when your choice is your Ultimate Lover. Don’t settle, you don’t have to.