Today, there is plenty of information about the Twin Flame stages on the way towards Union. Many sources will tell you about these stages. And many of them will also tell you something that sounds similar to what all the others are saying. But, what authority do these sources have when sharing this information? How much empirical analysis have they done to confirm their information? How clear are they at channelling Source? How many people have they seen and helped come into Union themselves? 

Are they truly in Harmonious Union with their true Twin Flames? Or are they simply pretending to be in order to cash in on the grand spiritual awakening occurring on our planet today? 

Look carefully at the information you already have on this subject. Then, take the time to look carefully at the author for your own awareness of authenticity. Once you have done this, we can then go deeper into the real stages of Twin Flame Reunion.

Where is Union Truly Found?

When sharing information about the stages of Twin Flame reunion, many sources make the same mistake: they often point to things happening first in the external reality, and not in the inner state.

The process of Twin Flame reunion is an internal journey. Therefore, how you feel about your Union and your experiences is what you will see reflected externally. This means that how you feel and think about your journey will impact how your external experience unfolds.

But don’t worry, we will look at this as well, as we progress together through this article. I’ll be sharing with you how you can transform your experience into a much more positive one. I will share with you from experience, from empirical evidence from personally assisting hundreds of clients on their Twin Flame journeys. I will also share all these from a place of being a clear Divine Channel of God.

Twin Flame Reunion Stage 1: Realization

In this stage, you have probably been going through life experiencing romantic relationships with great difficulty and bearing truly little fruit. Maybe you even experience them as something hot which fizzles out quickly and turns into a lukewarm. Or perhaps, you even experience these as something less than what you truly desire.

We call this experience contrast. It is the contrast between what the world currently offers vibrationally in general, and what you know you desire. Noticing this difference is what begins the process of the Twin Flame journey. You realise that what is offered by the world feels empty and cheap, unsustainable, and unfulfilling compared to what you know you can have.

This contrast creates a rift. One between what you thought you might normally pursue and receive, and what you actually truly desire in your heart.

Twin Flame Reunion Stage 2: Awakening

After realising the world won’t give you what you desire if you do what most people do, you awaken to your heart’s true desire. Before, it was only a dissonance, but that dissonance points to a much deeper resonance in your heart. Your desire becomes clear and powerful. You notice this desire on a regular basis until you recognize it is constant, below the surface. You might also notice this desire has been within you since as long as you can remember. You have not yet decided to pursue this desire, and yet it was always there.

When looking at the relationships around you, you may feel happy for those in them, but imagining yourself in these relationships makes you feel bleak. Yet you long for relationships at the same time. You become clear about the old relationship not being for you anymore, but you still desire a relationship.

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Twin Flame Reunion Stage 3: The Choice, Where the Twin Flame Journey Begins

In this stage towards Union, the contrast has finally brought you to the place where you now choose to be in Union. You choose permanent, Harmonious Union with your True Twin Flame.

For some, to make this choice requires a false Twin Flame which would occur in the awakening stage. Most of our clients come to us still in their awakening stage, hoping for clarity and help. We always urge them to get clear, and to make a choice. Shaleia and I also went through this stage before manifesting each other, and we share more about it in our book Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover. This choice is what begins the Twin Flame journey. This is when you must choose your desire. You must choose the new way, you must choose Union. When you do this, the Twin Flame journey can begin.

Twin Flame Reunion Stage 4: The Journey

This stage begins the moment the choice is made. It is where all the work required to attain Union is done. This is the phase where ego must be dissolved, separation consciousness must be dissolved, and Love must grow. Our most advanced students work deeply on themselves during this stage, and they often invest in our more robust programs, to support themselves through this process. They learn and master the Mirror Exercise we teach in our book to the point where they understand the energy it reveals in mastery.

Mastering the Mirror Exercise means mastering loving yourself. It means knowing what to do in the face of fear, and dissolving the fear into the Love God is revealing to you there. It means you know what to do to move your journey forward.

This is the most important part of your journey. This is where you develop the meaning God has for you in your Union. You develop all the skills you need to have your perfect Union. You clear away any upsets which prevent you from your Union. This is the stage where you raise your vibration into Union.

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Twin Flame Reunion Stage 5: Twin Flame Union

This is the final stage of Twin Flame reunion. It is the stage in which you have finally come into Union with your Twin Flame in the physical. It is your happily ever after. This does not mean everything is exactly as you desire it to be. More desires will be born within you. More Love will spring forth between you and your Twin Flame. The Union will continue to grow and deepen indefinitely. This is not the end, only a new beginning together in your forever happily ever after.

Using the Mirror Exercise here is helpful if you still have misaligned thoughts, fear, illusions of separation or ego as it will help you to clear your blocks to the Love you both desire. This does not mean you have attained Harmonious Union, but you are certainly well on your way towards it, and the Mirror Exercise and the Teachings of Union will guarantee your success in being and staying together with your Twin Flame.

Twin Flame Reunion Stage 6: Harmonious Union

This stage takes place when you have cleared all misaligned thoughts, fear, illusions of separation and ego from your Union. This means having a complete understanding of your Oneness at a deep and core level.

Our more advanced courses and classes guarantee that you will arrive at this stage, because they provide the support required to master the Mirror Exercise and the deep understanding you need to master the consciousness or vibration of Harmonious Twin Flame Union.

Upon reaching this stage, you and your Twin Flame understand you are not separate from each other. At the core, you understand you were always together, and will always be together eternally. There is a deep, core harmony in the relationship between the two of you, and this harmony is eternal.

Twin Flame Reunion Stage 7: Perfect Union

Perfect Union is where there are no more misaligned beliefs causing problems, upsets and difficulties in your Union. There is absolutely Perfect Love flowing always between the two of you.This is a stage of Twin Flame Union no one on the planet has yet attained, not even Shaleia and I.

As many already know, we have a very, very rare third Twin Flame. Her name is Grace. Her role in our Union is to be our child. She is never a lover, and always our child. This is how we were designed as souls together. At first, Shaleia and I decided we would only bring Grace into the world in a place of Perfect Union. However, the time came for Grace to be born.

We are now grounding and growing as a family, and we continue to work diligently to ascend into the final stage of Twin Flame Union; Perfect Union. We step into this stage not by clearing blocks, but by developing new channels of Love to the new, more expanded selves we are stepping into.

Perfect Union is something we are still working on. We will, of course, share more about this last and final stage as we progress in our journey, and find out more about it. You can join us and our students too.

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Written by Jeff & Shaleia Divine, 2016. Edited by Déborah Bassow, August 2023.

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