Today we’re going to talk about Twin Flames and eternal sex. We’ve talked about this topic on this blog before, but what do we mean by an eternity of Twin Flame sex? Does it mean that when you get with your Twin Flame, you are just having non-stop sex for eternity? Not really, but kind of.
Since sex itself is a great tool for healing, we’ll be talking about how you can build your sexual connection eternally with your Twin Flame. That’s why the first time you break the ice with your Twin Flame and become intimate, it’s usually the best sex you’ve ever had. And in Jeff and Shaleia’s experience, it just keeps getting better.
Understanding Twin Flame Sex
So, what is sex? Sex is an empty vessel. You can put in that vessel anything you desire. It can be an expression of your primal sensuality. It can be a pathway to God. It can be an expression of your loving intimacy. It can be all of these things at once. So when we talk about sex with your Twin Flame, we are talking about an aspect of your self-expression.
As you are created with a Divine partner, your Twin Flame, they are your perfect complement. Being best suited for you to explore your sexuality, your Twin Flame is designed to completely satisfy you sexually on every level.
Jeff and Shaleia teach us to not try to get something from Twin Flame sex, because that is not how you create a real connection with your Twin Flame. Instead, it is about continually opening and giving something to your sex life. It’s about developing an ever deeper intimacy with your one True Love.
You are eternally partnered with your Twin Flame. What we mean here by eternal Twin Flame sex is that you have a sexual connection with your beloved Twin Flame that deepens eternally . Sex that gets better, and deeper and more harmonious for eternity.
Twin Flame Sex and the Process of Ascension
First, we need to understand that sex with your Twin Flame is also related to the process of spiritual Ascension. Sex is about “integrating the divine experience with the physical world.” (Katrina Bos, “Tantric Intimacy”). This means that, at the core, sex is one of many tools for spiritual Ascension.
You can only ever deepen this connection eternally with your Twin Flame. With anyone else you are eventually going to hit a wall, a place where you can no longer deepen and grow together. If you are having sex with anyone but your Twin Flame, you will max out on your sexual pleasure at some point. But, engaging in Twin Flame sex is like exploring an endless cave, which even leads to more and more new caves. And it’s always perfect for what you are desiring.
This isn’t to say that your other sexual partners were bad people. All of your past sexual partners were just part of the path leading you to your Ultimate Lover. And your Ultimate Lover doesn’t just come with flowers and chocolates. Your Ultimate Lover means sex. Really great sex.
You build and deepen that experience with your Twin Flame through choosing Love and choosing intimacy. Bring that Love and intimacy every time you have sex. When you do that, you won’t experience really great sex that eventually loses its passion. With your Twin Flame, sex keeps getting better and better. You can go deeper into the nature of the romantic intimacy between Twin Flames in our Romance Attraction E-Course.
Passion or Lust?
Upon encountering the topic of Twin Flame Sex, we do need to establish a difference between what is passion for this person, and what is lust. Lust can be defined as: “passion without love and connection (…) We don’t need emotional connection to make it happen. We can walk down the street and see someone we find attractive, and we can practically feel our hormones rise. This is not eros (def). It is lust. It is our hormonal reaction to potential mates.” (Katrina Bos, “Tantric Intimacy”).
Many times in our Community, we’ve encountered members who -unwillingly, of course- mistake lust for passion. This isn’t a bad thing, it means your desire for passion and for your Ultimate Lover is there. It only needs to be directed appropriately. Knowing the true purpose of Twin Flame sex will give you that direction, and the love you and your Twin Flame share for each other will do the rest.
The Healing Power of Twin Flame Sex
As we shared, sex with your Twin Flame is an Ascension tool, just like the Mirror Exercise. Shaleia also learned that there is no bodily resistance to your Twin Flame. When Shaleia was with previous partners, whenever the opportunity for sex came up Shaleia’s body would go, “Meh. Maybe.” That was how Shaleia’s body was trying to communicate to her that she was out of alignment with this sexual partner. It was a sign that she was vibing out of a relationship where she was not getting any sexual healing.
Unlike sex with anyone else, sex with your Twin Flame is a safe container for you to heal sexual wounds and traumas. No matter how deep these sexual blocks might be, they can be healed naturally when you are intimate with your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame is actually designed to be your perfect sexual healer. And guess what? This healing and purifying effect is something that builds forever, because only Love is real and Love never fails. This is why we say it is eternal.
It is always perfect because it’s the perfect sexual energy for you, and it’s the perfect loving you need. Your Twin Flame loves you perfectly. There is a certain way you desire to give Love and romance, and a certain way you desire to receive Love and romance, and only your Twin Flame can fulfill those desires perfectly.
Great sex with your Twin Flame is a product of deep healing as much as it is a giver of deep healing. The perfect place to start is with the free Twin Flame Ascension Introductory Course that will lay the foundation for your journey of healing.
Written by Students of Twin Flames Universe, and adapted from the video “TWIN FLAME ETERNAL SEX” by Jeff and Shaleia.
Edited by Déborah Bassow, February 2023.
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