God’s meaning for sex is to explore deeper love and connection with your Twin Flame. Sex is a part of your balance in the relationship. You can’t experience love and intimacy and not be making love to your Twin Flame.  Sex is an expression of your relationship.

– Twin Flame Ascension School Class S7-33 – Holy Sex: Love and Intimacy with Your Twin Flame

Twin Flame Sex

Ah, Twin Flame sex. Everyone wants it, and rightly so! Twin Flame sex is the best sex you’ll ever have, guaranteed. It’s the fulfilling and healing connection of your souls through true intimacy.

If you’re familiar with the work of Twin Flames Universe at all, you’re aware that your Twin Flame is your perfect partner, best friend, and Ultimate Lover.

But how can this be?

Your Twin Flame was created perfectly for you to enjoy life with. Like perfect puzzle pieces destined to fit together, sex is a natural component of your healthy, happy Harmonious Twin Flame Union.

The Purpose Of Twin Flame Sex

Besides deep fulfillment and enjoyment, sex is a beautiful way of expressing your love for your Twin Flame. Sex with your Twin Flame is also profoundly physically and spiritually healing for both of you.

Sex is a deeply spiritual and emotional act, just as much as it is physical, so it makes sense that it feels best when it’s with your Twin Flame, your most beloved person, with whom you are meant to share a safe space of loving physical intimacy.

Essentally, sex is just another avenue for the perfect and complete love you and your beloved feel toward one another.

twin flames in the ocean

Soulmate Sex

What about soulmate sex, or having sex with someone other than your Twin Flame? Can that be just as good or better than sex with my Twin Flame?

Soulmate sex may seem appealing at first; they’re into you, you’re into them. Maybe you’re in separation from your Twin Flame and just want to have sex. What could go wrong?

In Divine truth, you’re physically created to have sexual intercourse only with your Twin Flame.

Your body and your Twin Flame’s body fit together like perfect puzzle pieces and are physically satisfying for each other in all the right ways.

There may be times in your life where it may seem like you’re into a soulmate, but when you look closer, you find they are not an exact vibrational match to your soul like your Twin Flame is, and therefore can not ultimately be a satisfying emotional or physical match.

Because of this, Divine physical intimacy doesn’t actually exist outside of your Twin Flame Union.

Unlike soulmate sex, Twin Flame sex has no ceiling for the depths of pleasure and enjoyment you can experience together.

Once you and your Twin Flame begin engaging in sexual physical intimacy, you will feel in your mind, your body and soul that you do not desire to be as close with anyone else in this way. Who else can even remotely compare!

Begin ending separation consciousness in your own life and align with the one true reality, where you know you deserve to experience Divine bliss with your one true love, using the powerful Mirror Exercise.

twin flames closer in the dark

Kundalini Awakening

One of the more powerful experiences related to Twin Flames is Kundalini Awakening.

For context, “Kundalini” is a Sanskrit word that translates to “coiled,” and it refers to life energy that lies at the base of your spine, or your root chakra.

Many who experience Kundalini awakening describe it as an energy moving up the spine, and is often accompanied by yoga and spiritual meditation.

Twin Flames often act as a catalyst for Kundalini energy awakening.

Establishing emotional and physical safety in your relationship with your Twin Flame is essential for setting the proper foundation for your Kundalini energy arousal. Honor one another’s innocence, appreciate each other’s bodies as Divine and sacred, and respect one another completely. You’ll find Kundalini energy flowing in no time at all!

The Best Age for Twin Flame Sex

What’s the best age for you and your Twin Flame to have sex? Your Union is completely unique and personal to you.

married twin flames in a desert

So the best answer for this question is: whatever feels best, and is emotionally and physically appropriate for you and your Twin Flame.

In A New Earth, Jeff and Shaleia’s YouTube series, they describe a time somewhere in the not so distant future on the New Earth, where you and your Twin Flame will enjoy growing up together. In the New Earth, you’ll be raised by Twin Flame parents, in communities of Twin Flame-based families rather than karmic or soul-mate based families. Surrounded by so much Divine love, Twin Flames will be the standard for relationships everywhere.

As you and your Twin Flame blossom into your adolescent years, sex will naturally make sense and feel good for both of you, and will be a completely appropriate, mature, and respectful experience.

If you desire to go deeper on this topic, check out our blog “Can I Have Sex Early in My Twin Flame Union?

Religious Beliefs Surrounding Sex

Many of us who grew up in religious environments have experienced the pain of judgment and shame around sex that was shared with us from misguided leaders. Purity culture continues to be a prominent aspect in many cultures, and while choosing to honor and respect your sexuality is a healthy and wonderful choice, being shamed or judged for having sex is not acceptable in any form.

No one deserves to feel ashamed of their very natural sexual desires, arousal, and experiences.

As Unionism teaches, love is your natural state of being. Love for your body and your Twin Flame are not separate from the love you feel for God. Your body and your sex with your Twin Flame deserve to be honored, respected, and appreciated.

God is a loving God. He wills perfect happiness and joy for you forever. This includes deeply fulfilling and satisfying sex with your Twin Flame, the person He created you to be with!

Only unconditional love is the standard and will forever be the standard.


This sermon addresses masturbation and sex perfectly! It’s important to understand what masturbation is and the role it plays while on the Twin Flame journey.

Masturbation is defined by the Merriam Webster dictionary as “erotic stimulation especially of one’s own genital organs commonly resulting in orgasm.”

For anyone experiencing physical separation from their Twin Flame, masturbation is a very healthy way of working through upsets with sex and developing closeness and intimacy with oneself. Being one with your Twin Flame, cultivating this self-intimacy will naturally manifest in your Twin Flame Union.

Truthfully, when you reunite with your Twin Flame in the physical, you will find no real need for masturbation as all of your physical needs will be completely satisfied in your Union.

plucking of a rose

5D Sex 

In Divine truth, you and your Twin Flame were created as One. You have never left this place of Divinity. In your higher spiritual realms, you are actually always in deep, ecstatic levels of bliss with your beloved.

5 Signs You’re Ready for Twin Flame Sex

Not sure if you’re ready for Twin Flame sex? Check out these 5 signs!

1. You like and accept yourself sexually. You know sex is a natural and normal component of any loving, healthy relationship, including having a healthy relationship with yourself. You’ve addressed any major wounds you feel about sex.

2. You set boundaries on your sexual energy. Keeping your energy becomes much more important to you than leaking it.

3. You’re more sensitive to your body sexually. Your senses are heightened or heightening when it comes to sexual experiences.

4. You appreciate how much you know about yourself sexually, and are open to knowing yourself on a deeper level. You know what you like and what you don’t like. You communicate your needs freely in bed and are comfortable being your full self in bed.

Your Twin Flame reflects back to you your healthy sex life. When you think of your Twin Flame or have interactions with them in the physical, they reflect back to you all the self-love and healing you’ve done.

twin flames tender moment in bed

Final Thoughts

Twin Flame sex is an art, an expansion of your relationship with your Twin Flame, and a complete expression of Love for the Divine. Take care of yourself sexually, and this healing will be reflected back to you by your Twin Flame. 

Need support cultivating a healthy romantic relationship with yourself and your Twin Flame? Check out our free Intro Twin Flame Course.

Further Reading and Resources to Claim Your Twin Flame Union Now!