Are you struggling with your Divine Masculine’s desire for you or lack thereof? Is your Twin Flame not paying you much, if any, attention? Do you want to know how to trigger his desire for you? Well, the answer may be simpler than you think: it’s self-love. In this blog, we’ll explore the power of self-love and exactly how it can help you attract your Divine Masculine.

We will discuss how you can use self-love to trigger your Divine Masculine’s desire for you. We’ll share with you a simple but powerful technique that will help you to be the best version of yourself and go deeper into loving yourself.

The Power of Self-Love

Self-love is one of the most powerful tools you have on your Twin Flame journey. Love is the most powerful force in the Universe. It is the energy of Life Itself. 

Focusing on yourself and being the best version of yourself, by learning to really love yourself, is the technique that is going to attract your Divine Masculine. It all starts with treating yourself as you would treat your Twin Flame.

What does self-love actually mean?

“What do you mean just love yourself? That’s so vague.”

happiness triggers the divine masculine's desire for you

Well, loving yourself is a lot of things, right? Maybe it’s being the best version of yourself. Or getting started with your Life Purpose. It could be doing yoga, looking after your health or cooking yourself a nice meal. Whatever it is that feels good is self-love.

Being the best version of yourself often means making some changes, especially if you haven’t been loving yourself very much until now. The most important factor in self-love is healing yourself. This helps you to love yourself to the same extent that you love your Twin Flame.

So it’s about treating yourself as you would treat your Twin Flame. Think about this. How would you love your Twin Flame? Would you do the same things that you do for them for yourself? Perhaps you treat them much better?

How much do you desire yourself?

Try asking yourself these questions right now to see how well you’re loving yourself.

Would you take yourself out on nice dates?

Do you treat yourself with care and respect and love?

Have you dressed yourself up in really nice clothes?

Are you choosing to heal through all of your traumas and upsets?

If you answered “Yes,” then that’s good. If you answered “No,” then maybe there are some things that you can work through. And that’s okay. It’s okay that things come up that you need to work through. You might find you have resistance to loving yourself or giving yourself self-love, it’s all right.

Triggering your Divine Masculine’s desire for you

Loving yourself takes investment. So how does loving yourself and practicing a self-love technique, attract your Divine Masculine’s desire? 

Divine Masculine, and student of the Teachings of Union, Drake, shares how his desire is expressed in his Union: 

“I know from experience that when my Twin Flame is loving herself up, she’s looking good, she’s feeling good. 

Feeling good is really important when she’s living her best life. She’s laughing, she’s smiling, she feels good about her life. She feels confident in her body and in her femininity. That’s when I’m most attracted to her. Like, I’m telling you, I’ll be chasing her out the door, I’ll be blowing up her phone. I mean, not really, but you get what I mean.

My heart soars with joy! I become instantly attracted to her when I see her in this energy.”

twin flames dancing and being happy

The vibration of Love is magnetic

And this is the Love vibration energy. This is the vibration of Love that we’re speaking about. So of course, all the self-love that you’re doing, that’s what’s going to help attract your Divine Masculine because it’s the same thing. Loving you is loving them.

So maybe you’re asking, well, how do I go deeper? How do I go deeper into loving myself? To go deeper into loving yourself, you need to look at any upsets you have in your life.

Ask yourself what you’re most upset about and do the Mirror Exercise on that. Your Twin Flame shares the same consciousness as you, so whatever your Twin Flame is doing, you are also doing, and you’re going to be mirroring each other. When you find the place within where you’re not communicating with yourself, or being present with yourself, that’s what helps you get closer to your Twin Flame. It attracts them magnetically.

Self-love with the Mirror Exercise

The Mirror Exercise is a powerful tool that can help you go deeper into loving yourself. It’s a tool that can help you become more present with yourself and more connected to the Source of Love within.

the divine masculine desires her

Well, any upsets that you’re having in your life, you want to look at them. So what are you most upset about right now? Maybe you’re most upset that your Twin Flame is not talking to you. Well, do the Mirror Exercise on that. Because your Twin Flame is showing you how you’re not loving yourself.

This is a tool that you really need because it’s going to help you even more with the technique of self-love. It’s going to take you so much deeper.

Your Twin Flame shares the same consciousness as you, so whatever your Twin Flame is doing, you’re also doing, and you’re going to be mirroring this to each other. So as we said before, if your Twin Flame’s not talking to you, it’s because there’s a part of you not talking to yourself.

How does this go hand-in-hand with self-love? Well, when you find that place within yourself where you’re not communicating with yourself, and not being present with yourself and love that part of you and heal, then you naturally feel closer to your Twin Flame. You are One!

Your Divine Masculine’s Desire – Love yourself even more!

Maybe being present with yourself includes being more present with your body. And when you’re more present with your body, you eat better, right? You feel better when you’re loving yourself. You’re going to feel so much better. You will grow and become the best version of yourself.

You don’t want to rely on your Twin Flame for happiness, or for joy, or for anything. That needs to come from you and the Source of Love within you. And so, as you cultivate all this self-love and you become this beacon of Love, that’s what’s going to attract him to you.

The more you love yourself, the more Love you receive. And the more Love you receive, the more your Twin Flame can connect with you. Because your Twin Flame is a big part of Love. Your Twin Flame is a reflection of your relationship with Love. So, of course, the more you love yourself, the more you’re going to receive them. So, make the choice now to just focus on yourself. Focus on cultivating your relationship with yourself as your priority.

Questions to ask yourself:

Is there something you can do each day to love yourself more?

How can you go deeper into loving yourself?

What can you do each day to get closer to your goals?

Think about your goals. What do you want to accomplish in your life? It’s not always about your Twin Flame. It’s about you. So focus on your goals. Focus on what you want to do. Cultivate that.

Build an unstoppable foundation in your life where you feel content, comfortable, peaceful, and your Twin Flame will join you there. This is your Divine Masculine’s desire too. Doing this technique is what is going to make it so easy for your Twin Flame to come into your life.

activating the divine masculine's desire

Does self-love make my Divine Masculine desire me more?

You’re going to be so highly magnetic and attractive to your Twin Flame, they’re going to have no other choice but to just be right there next to you. So practice this every single day and they will come to you. This is so attractive to the Divine Masculine. 

Drake shares: “When I see my Twin Flame and she’s glowing, I can’t explain it. I just want to go and be there with her. It’s compelling.” 

And so it will work for you, too.

Practice this one technique, the Mirror Exercise, and you will have what you desire. You will have your Divine Masculine. You will have your Twin Flame. This is what we’re all here for, it’s our Twin Flame.

Well, this is how you have it. Self-love. Pour into yourself as you would pour into everybody else. Focus on you first, as you would those that you love. You’re the most important person in your life. So the more you focus on you, the more your Twin Flame will focus on you.

twin flames together


In conclusion, self-love is the key to triggering your Divine Masculine’s desire for you. By focusing on yourself and being the best version of yourself.

If you are having difficulties on your Twin Flame journey, there is so much support for you. A great place to begin is with the free Twin Flames Introductory Ascension Course. It’ll help you get started on your inner work, and it will take you deeper into loving yourself, and teaching you how to love yourself, and how to have a great relationship with yourself.

Transcribed from the YouTube video “Trigger His Desire For You Using THIS TECHNIQUE

Edited by Julia Martin-Woodbridge

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