Most of what we know about romance comes from the media; a fiery, dramatic gesture of love and passion or strong affection between two people. It’s often depicted as very hot at the beginning, very quick and intense. But romance isn’t really about that. Or at least, this is just the surface-level of what true romance is.
Romance is a constant giving of love and care to yourself. It means you pay attention to yourself and give yourself what you need, in the form of good food, a bath, a walk. Sometimes, romance is just about loving your life into betterment; more organization, loving your home, etc.
Romance doesn’t always have to be hot, quick and intense. Romance is actually the contrary: it’s gentle, and looks like a constant flow. It comes from the inner desire to know yourself, what you actually love and give it to yourself, without ever having to wait on someone else to do it for you.
So, how does it connect to your Twin Flame? And what is the purpose of having a partner if romance is about self-love?